Watching yourself cum

Discussion in 'Sexual Fetishes and Fantasies' started by alwaystry, Dec 11, 2013.

  1. alwaystry

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    I was wondering how many people , woman and men ,, who like to watch themselves cum , during sex or masturbating. Do you look down? Pull out so you can see it? Woman too , when you start to quiver, with a toy or not , do you watch? I seem to be fascinated by it and have noticed it more lately that I was. When masturbating I almost always just watch myself spurt , I. Love the feeling of it splashing in differant spots and running down my hand. But during sex, even if I do not have to , I like to pull out sometimes just to watch myself cum, how much, how far , where. And recently during sex I did this and my lady called me out on it and said " you just like watching yourself cum , or just like doing it yourself don't you?" It wasn't in a negative way but she noticed. I'll admit , watching woman masturbate I like to watch her convulse,maybe hoping for a squirt. I get turned on watching guys cum in porn or when I did a little swinging and group stuff , maybe I wish I came like they did , I don't know. What are your thoughts?
     
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    if im wanking it hell ya i watch if im having sex i dont watch and yes i do like watching poeple get off lol
     
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    Female here - not much to see.
    When I had a bf, it felt better that I was able to make him cum than to watch it.....the fact that he was cumming was better then the visual....does that make sense?
     
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    Yeah it makes sense . Just looking for other views on it, and I get it that for woman watching themselves there usually isn't much going on unless they squirt. But I have seen videos , knew someone, that she looked at her self down there while masturbating, with toys or not.
     
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    Really, the only reason I masturbate is to watch my cum spurt out. I even count how many times I spurt. During sex, if in a position to watch, yeah I like to look at our genitals, but I don't pull out to watch myself cum. Obviously with women, there's not much to see, although Silverette does visibly pulse. Strong PC muscles. Feels great when I'm in.
     
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    Very much enjoy watching myself or someone masturbating my hard cock.
     
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    In another thread, I said I like to masturbate in front of a mirror. One of the reasons is that I like to watch my face. I like to watch my body arch and twist and jerk and my hair toss.
     
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    Yes, I also use a mirror. With a small handheld mirror I am usually most interested in seeing how wet and swollen I am, plus I am in love with watching things go in and out of me. With a larger mirror, it's all about my tits and my love affair with them. I don't know how or why I got to love watching them so much, but it's been this way for many years.
     
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    I am very much like HFH. I have watched myself but it isnt all that thrilling now. However watching my man squirt is very entertaining. So is watching him touch himself. But he says the same thing about me.
     
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    I do and enjoy taste once and while
     
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    i have pulled out and come over my partner - but she very much prefers i stay in as deep as possible, so dont do it very often now
    if mast. then yep i watch ....
     
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    I love watching myself cum both from masturbating & on a woman. I can shoot a lot of cum far so I just enjoy the visual stimulation it gives me.
     
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    Shooting a lot of come and shooting far must be so much fun. As a woman I have to admit I like watching a man do that. I bet for a lot of guys it is fun to watch that from yourself.
     
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    I love watching myself cum I also like watching cumshots in porn. I really like body shots seeing the cum cover a nice set of tits or stomach. Then to watch the girl rub it in and lick my cum off her fingers is so hot.
     
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    It is!
     
  16. shashtzoh

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    So how often do you do that? How do you do it? I am very interested in learning how men go enjoy watching their ejaculations and play with doing it. I have witnessed some but still it is cool.
     
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    I do it almost every day.
     
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    Good for you. I bet your prostate is squeaky clean and healthy then.
     
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    Yep & the skin on my face is soft from all of the facials I give myself. ;)
     
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    I love watching myself cum. I point it either upwards or towards my face when I cum so I can see the cum spurting out.

    But I don't pull out to cum. I'd much rather cum IN her pussy. I've never enjoyed pulling out to cum. Never been my thing.