Watching wife fuck

Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by laredo, Mar 20, 2010.

  1. laredo

    laredo New Member

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    Men, do you enjoy watching your wife or girlfriend fuck another guy? Ladies, do you enjoy your husband watching?
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    I wouldn't be able to handle it. She's my wife and mine only. It's just something I can't wrap my head around. It does seem to be popular in porn videos these days.

    I can't help but wonder what effect it has on relationships after finally following through with it. Maybe for some the fantasy was much better than the reality. For others, I guess it has a positive effect, but it seems a risky experiment.

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    igor Gold Member

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    Laredo: Are you married - do you want your wife to be fucked by another guy?
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    Good question. Just wondering what's tweaking your curiosity. Is it something you and your wife are thinking of trying? Like I said in my first post, be careful, it's not something you want to rush into. Make sure you're both on the same page relationship-wise.
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    We have only done it one time. It was at a party and there were four other couples also watching. The guy had a really large cock. He wife put lube on his cock and guided in into my wife's pussy. It was a real visual turnon. She said the thickness filled her up and the girth felt great in her pussy. She said once he was inside her, she didnt think about people watchig. We would do it again if the right situation came up.
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    That sounds like a pretty cool party. Now you've got me all woody thinking about it. :D
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    Agreed.
    Makes me wish I'd been born in time to experience the swinging 70s :D
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    In times past, my wife and I have both watched each other with different partners.:)
    It caused no adverse problem for us...but we did see problems with other couples who didn't seem to have the same outlook and/or security within their relationship.:ugh
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    I'm not married but I have been. If I want to see my girlfriend fuck, I'll get a mirror or video cam. I do the fucking in this house! This reminds me of the old joke about the guy who was so lazy he married a girl who was already pregnant.
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    I actually was 18 years old in 1974 but I guess I just didn't run with the right crowd. Boy, what was I thinking!:p
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    Absofuckinglutely!

    HR you're absolutely right! Swinging is certainly not for everyone. For starters it has to be both partners fantasy. It's the kind of experiment that can't be undone.
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    I have had the experience and it can be quite enjoyable. Definately would do it again.
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    Now that is absolutely awesome! A man who claims his and actually does something about it!!!! :cheer
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    Yes, yes, yes.....
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    I'd prefer just him and me and he can watch me pleasure myself anytime.
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    I think this should only be allowed when the person is just a boy/girl friend and not husband and wife.
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    Why do you say that, Pes?
  18. HardRocker

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    Suite91 might try to convince you otherwise. Some married couples are on the same page about how their sexual activities affect their relationship and successfully swing, just as their unmarried counterparts do. As I think I mentioned earlier, my wife and I are not into swinging. It's just one of those things I never could wrap my head around. Nor did I ever have the urge to try. I think if we felt otherwise, it would be an exciting lifestyle.
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    HEY! I'm not here to convince anyone! I share my thoughts and experiences. that's all.

    Pes, did you really mean to use the word 'allowed'? Is there some regulatory body governing sex that I am unaware of? :lol

    It is my opinion (HR!) that the health of a relationship has much more to do with the success of any extra-sexual encounter than marital status does. My wife and I got married, AFTER we had been together for 14 years. It was a great party but our relationship was just as strong before the wedding as after.
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    Please accept my apology if you found my statements to be presumptuous.