[Ask a Girl] Watching porn with my girl

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  1. corvette88

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    A question for a lady; okay here it goes, my girl and I are really open with each other and we have told each other our different sexual turn ons. She watchs porn and so do I on occasion.Probably me more than her. We have a great sexual relationship, however Ive asked her watch porn with me to kind of spice things up and she seems weirded out by it, or she thinks that im looking at the women in these movies and comparing, which I guess that may be true but my girl is so hot none of those pornstars have anything on her. So my question is how do I get her to watch porn with me and be comfortable and have fun doing it. Personally I dont even like watching the porn, I just like her watching it and doin her thing while i watch her :). Also she is more into the traditional way of sex, like not really any fetishes or anything. At times I find it a little boring, I wouldnt consider myself a freak or anything but i do like to be a little more kinky at times. Is it unreasonable for me to want her to be kinky sometimes? I dont want to offend her but I would like to talk to her about this stuff but I dont know how to approach her without offending her
     
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    Have you told her why you want to watch porn with her? Knowing your reasoning might make her a bit more comfortable if she knows that you are more interested in watching her enjoy it than comparing her to the women involved.

    As a comment on the desire for more kinkiness, I am much more vanilla than my partner. He is interested in branching out a bit. Nothing he has mentioned so far has offended me. I just told him that we need to ease into it. He is more than willing to work with me. A couple of the things we have tried have resulted in collapsing in giggles, but he is okay with that. The whole aspect of trying things together and talking about what we are and are not willing to do for each other is an ongoing conversation. Helps when it happens after a very satisfying bit of sex so all involved know that things are already good but could maybe get better.
     
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    My partner and I watch porn... usually seperately. I think I watch it more than him, usually on the weekend if I am really horny.

    Yesterday afternoon, I was constantly on heat and i was watching porn and I got so wet and turned on that I asked my man to lick me out there and then. He got under the covers and gave me a great orgasm, then he got hard and said he was so turned on by how wet I was that we had sex.

    I am digressing...

    What I am trying to say is, I personally, would find it embarrassing to watching it with him, I really do not know why. Nothing to do with him comparing the girls to me I am not that insecure, I think it is a dirty little pleasure/secret that I have, like a fantasy.
     
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    I think my wife secretly really liked watching porn, even though she always seemed to "let" me turn it on when we got into bed. She ALWAYS came sooner and more often when porn was on and truly I never saw any of it... I saw her inner thighs,her tummy twitch, her nipples harden. But I REALLY like typical porn soundtrack!!!!!!!!!
     
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    I'm like this. I love watching porn when I'm alone and in my own little world but feel as awkward as anything sharing it with my partner.
     
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    My husband and I both know that the other watches porn and we have watched it together. It's more fun watching it alone though because when we watch it together it just becomes another movie really. It loses it's turn on capabilities with us when we watch it together unless we are actually having sex while watching it.
     
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    I really appreciate everybodys help on this topic :) Thank you!!
     
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    just tell her your kinky stuff. Why not?
     
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    Glad I am not the only one with that concept as well :)
     
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    I love watching porn. She could be a little insecure.

    Tell her you would like to get some ideas on new things to do from the porn movie.
     
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    okay that sounds great :), Does anybody has any recomedations on a movie to watch, I guess one that would be couple friendly lol.
     
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    Maybe she is just uncomfortable watching it as a couple. If it is something you really desire, talk openly with her about it. Share your feelings with her..same with the "kinky" stuff you want to try. You might find out that she is curious about the same.
    I enjoy watching porn with T more than alone. It seems that when we do watch it together we usually end with sex of some sort.
    Sorry that I do not have suggestions on couple friendly porn for you though. :)