watching porn while girlfriend is away for summer

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  1. mosdefinitely

    mosdefinitely New Member

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    alright so im a college student and me and my girlfriend have been going out for 8 months, living together for the majority of it. well, i hadnt really watched porn at all since we got together but about a week before summer began she found porn on my computer. She lives about 6 hours away and gas is expensive as hell so i cant go see her that often. Point of the story is...she found the porn and it made her feel like shit that other girls turn me on. Well, now we're in our own towns and i found myself looking at porn the other day and then feeling like shit afterwards. so is it alright to watch porn when your girlfriend is far away even tho it hurts her or am i a bastard. haha thanks tho
     
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    b3n New Member

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    I don't see how it should be problematic. Just don't let her find out =P. Or, you could have her make you some videos/pictures and send them to you. haha
     
  3. Puss_in_boots

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    Yeah, sometimes girls have insecurities about their boyfriends looking at porn. They're thinking, "shouldn't I be good enough for him?" and the like, but they don't always understand that guys need visual stimuli in order to help them masturbate. Basically porn serves the same purpose for a guy as a vibrator does for a girl, which is a purely non-threatening (most of the time) masturbatory aid.

    Besides it's not very kind or very realistic of your girlfriend to feel like shit that other girls turn you on. You and me baby ain't nothin' but mammals...and if we see someone attractive we're invariably going to be turned on. It's part of who and what we are. What separates us from animals is that we don't always try to fuck every attractive member of the opposite sex we encounter. Well, some of us don't. :p ;)
     
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    Bro, I am in literally the same exact boat. My gf asked me if I was going to look at porn when she was gone over the summer, I said maybe and she got really down about it. She said it made her feel insufficient and insignificant. So, I personally haven't been to quick to look at porn or anything. Instead I just read some of the stories on here. ;)