I love seeing my gf in panties and heels. she hates when I ask her about watching her do stuff with a guy while I watch and she only enjoys some things when shes really horny so we came up with a system of instead of me bothering her and turning her off with wanting to ask about her thoughts on how big of a penis would she want him to have and if she would struggle doing certain things knowing im watching. it goes on and on. for me its about her sharing her body and emotions with a man she doesn't want to give sexual things to but going through it for me to give to me and being able to appreciate watching her go through different things and watching heer have things done to her that make her feel uncomfortable and watch her enjoy certain things uncontrollably. so we decided I would write it all down in a notebook and she would read through my thoughts and when shes feeling horny she will write a detailed response to it all. and since we started writing in notebook 4 months ago, I have filled 3 notebooks and she has one that's filled now with her responses and thoughts. its became really fun for us both. im 29 shes 27 we try to have a active sex life. I want sex night and day she is a romantic. wants to cuddle and orgams at same time type stuff. well have any of u watched your man or woman with another person. ideas tips? id tell more to whoever cares to know. just ask.