Watching (more?) porn together

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  1. MrFusion

    MrFusion New Member

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    I know a lot of couples watch porn together and I'd like to join that club.

    My wife doesn't seem too interested though. Maybe once a year (if even that) I'll have some Skinemax movie on when she walks into the bedroom. She will start commenting about how fake it is, or about how the woman doesn't have nice enough tits, act somewhat disinterested, but my wife gets wetter than ever. (And the dirty talk even comes out then!!) We can also be at the movie store and she will say "Sure, I'll watch one with you, but you pick it out." I've tried to get her to look, but she just glances and makes a beeline out of the back room and says "pick one"

    The few times we have actually watched a movie together has happened we've had some of the best sex I can remember. (I'm not trying to watch hardcore porn with her either... Skinemax or some amateur videos with real looking people in them.)


    One time recently was about a month ago. A few days later I suggested it again and she basically said "Well, why aren't we watching it RIGHT NOW??" I really thought we had turned a corner, but alas.. Every time I've mentioned it since then she's disinterested.

    I think she might be embarassed that she likes it. I've mentioned that I think we have an awesome relationship (Which we do BTW..) but every so often if we thew a movie or two in there it would be great - just to break up the routine!

    Any advice you can give a guy to get his lady more interested in a movie now and then?
     
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    Violet Blue (the columnist, not the porn star) has a book called 'The Smart Girl's Guide to Porn'. Might be a good conversation-starter. I haven't read it, but I've read some of her other books, and she's usually a reliable source of advice.
    At amazon.
     
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    Sounds to me like she is a bit embarrassed to admit any interest in porn, especially in public, even though she may have some. Why not just bring a movie home and watch it with her? That way she doesn't have to display or admit any interest, but can enjoy the "benefits."
     
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    Check these out, they are a bit tame but my wife simply loves them. She likes the fact that the story relates to the sex and it is something normal couples can relate to. This porn is made for couples and works for us when we watch it together. I had to order them, nobody in my hometown stocks the series. That sucks.
     
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    Heads up
    You can not post links to adult material in any section other then the adult photos and videos section.
     
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    man my wife gets mad when i watch porn why is that
     
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    MrFusion,
    Your lady is just shy to admit that some porn does turn her on.
    This is the good-girls-aren't-supposed-to-like-dirty-stuff syndrome.
    Keep presenting her with mild stuff as others have suggested.