watching, but not sharing partners

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  1. martin9p2

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    I have a fascination about seeing other couples having sex, but I don't want to share my GF at all. Has anyone here suggested to their partner and to other couples that they have a get together without sharing partners? Experiences? Stories?
     
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    We've done this heaps of times through the years with different couples that we've gotten to know.
    There are a lot of couples out there that have similar views to yourself,
    want to expand their horizons,watch others, be watched themselves and yet not actually "swap" partners.
    Often this can be a prelude to other things like mutual foreplay then sex with own partner which indeed we saw when going to swing clubs where a lot of couples would participate in just about everything except partner swapping, which is quite acceptable at most clubs.
    Sure, you'll get propositioned, but most swingers tend to respect the term "thanks but no thanks" and its all cool.
    If you can find another couple who share a similar view to yourselves, and it should'nt be too hard, then its just a matter of setting your limits and its party time.:D
    In short, sex with own partner in a group situation is gangs of fun :naughtydance
     
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    Martin,

    Does your girlfriend go for this idea? Maybe she's wilder than you think!
     
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    Are you talking about soft swinging or more of a voyeur activity? If you are talking about soft swinging, where the two of you have contact with another couple but engage in sex with each other, then you will find couples who share you interest. The one thing I would caution you about soft swinging is that your SO and you need to discuss the limits of the activity along with are the two of you interested at some point trying a full swap. My first reason for mentioning this is at some point most couples who start out with soft swinging do move onto full swapping. Another reason some of the couples that you do meet will start out soft swinging with you in an effort to help the two of you get comfortable but may expect at some point to have a full swap with the two of you. So it is very important that the two of you understand and communicate about your limits.

    If you are talking about a voyeur situation where there is strictly no contact between each couple and there is mutual watching, then my recommendation would be attending a swingers club. Otherwise you may struggle finding a couple outside of a swingers club who would let you watch. I am not saying it is definitely not possible but what I am saying is that you may struggle in finding couples as most, outside of swingers clubs, tend to prefer soft swinging. My recommendation is if this is the type of activity you are searching for and do not want to attend a swingers club then post ads on several swingers site specifically stating the type of activity you are wanting along with the limits of the activity. By doing this you will minimize any misunderstandings and also minimize any time wasters.
     
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    I got watched by my bfs friend one time. He just stood there and jacked off till he came. I thught it was hot. I felt so slutty and it felt dangerous.
     
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    Boy friends? You have multiple ones right now? Jacking off while the other (s) fuck you?
     
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    Boy friend's friend.....
     
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    Yeah thats what I meant. I just have the one boyfriend.

    for now lol.
     
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    Rose Resident Sexy Grandma
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    Now, Fungirl - if Madame Puss In Boots had caught this, she would have had you write on the board - 50 tiimes:

    "I WILL ALWAYS USE AN APOSTROPHE 'S' WHEN INDICATING POSSESSION.
    OTHERWISE, PEOPLE WILL CONCLUDE I MEANT 'MORE THAN ONE'."


    :bsdm
     
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    OH YEAH, FOR SURE!! Whatever you do, DON'T let Mistress Puss catch you in a grammatical or spelling error! She will paddle your butt good and proper!!! Don't use no bad grammur 'n' don't misspeull no wurds here on SF or Ms. Puss will do sum kinky things to U!!! ;>
     
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    Oh, by the way, back on topic, I used to know some couples who would book motel rooms together in Knoxville, Tennessee. They would not change partners but one couple would get on one bed and on couple on the other bed and fuck at the same time. Sort of like watching a live porno show while having sex, I guess.
     
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