Little story , I used to be very self concious and I still can be once in a while but not very much. I used to not understand masturbating in front of someone or just watching them, I never could wrap my mind around sharing your partner or swinging in general. All in one year this changed for me and I love it all and I am not sure what changed. I know people that know some of my sexual kinks and such and they do not get it. Is all just being comfortable? Or accepting? Understanding? I can't explain why but I love to watch a woman masturbate for me and I get really turned on when a guy masturbates while watching me and my woman or knowing they masturbate on their own to this.( I ve been told they did,it was a turn on). Ihave had fmf, mfm , mfmf sex , all were a huge turn on and the typical guy fantasy is to have two woman at a time , it is amazing , no doubt , but the mfm was a bigger turn on to me and I amnot sure why. I thinkits because the attention isn't all on me. I don't know ,I guessmy question is what is your experience with this? How much if at all has it changed for you? I have been in conversations with people where they have said some people do these things because they lack confidence and are seeking it ,others because they are care free andcomfortable with who they are. Thoughts?