watching and being watched

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  1. haolcatx

    haolcatx New Member

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    How many of you have had sex in front of someone and under what circumstances. What happened. How many of you have ever seen another couple have sex after being invited by them to watch? What did you do? How many have had sex in the same room with another couple having sex at the same time? Any stories?


    I had sex in front of another couple one time. It was in a hot tub and I was fooling around with my date. We were in bathing suits and she told me (they were her friends) it would be ok to have sex in front of them. So I did. We took off our suits and she rode me in the hot tub in front of them. It was really hard to do without leverage and the other couple didn't seem terrible interested. They kissed passionately a few times but they just were not into watching which kinda ruined it for me.

    The hot tub was at her house so we went upstairs to her room and had sex there. She was bisexual and had watched lesbian porn earlier that day. She told me about her favorite woman porn star and showed me the box. When she was getting close to cumming in missionary I whispered the porn star's name (I today cannot remember the name) over and over and it made her cum.

    I have never watched another couple.
     
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    watching is hot so is being watched:dgrin
     
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    Never been watched or done the watching but I bet both would be extremely arousing ;)
     
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    I had a women friend whom I never dated had sex with or kissed who use to watch her gay friend have sex with other guys. She didn't masterbate or anything but just watched it.

    I did date (whom I never had sex with) this bi-sexual women whose really close friend was a gay man. She would be in the den while they were having really vocal sex in her bedroom.

    I would really love to have sex with another couple in the same room having sex at the same time. I couldn't talk my last gf (last year) into that. We are still friends and I secretly want to present that idea to her as a friend thing but I don't want to ruin the friendship. Be nice to be in a relationship again and have that as an option sometime down the road.
     
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    Love it.
     
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    Watching and being watched...

    The most exciting thing I've seen lately is my young girlfriend (also 19) spanked by my (much) older one (in her early 40's). For one thing, the older woman has this incredible figure is in fantastic physical shape because of her job. As my girlfriend likes to spank me, it was very enjoyable watching her "get it" too. I wish I could tell my boyfriends this but they'd hound me forever to let them spank me...
     
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    We've done that at parties.We weren't being stared at,but we were definitely being watched.Another couple was on the bed next to us.It was prety hot knowing we were all "enjoying" ourselves.

    Also,my b/f and I do it in public a lot...not in the wide open,but there are definitely onlookers...it's a turn on;).
     
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    I have watched and been watched at swingers parties.
    For some odd reason being watched is much more of a turn on
    (for me) than watching.
    unless its my wife doing another guy, that turns me on more than anything.
    I think I could watch her giving head all nite (and I pretty much have)
    as I did watch her fuck 4 guys one nite. She did 2 more that nite but
    they went off to a private room.
     
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    Quote Pussycat 69.
    Also,my b/f and I do it in public a lot...not in the wide open,but there are definitely onlookers...it's a turn on.
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    I like to have my wife do things in public also.
    Its a real turn on to take her to the mall with an extremely short mini skirt
    and no panties and watch her bend over to check things on the bottom
    shelves, ride the escelator and things that will expose her.
    why things like that turns me on I havent a clue, but it does.
    Also when I walk in the woods I like her in front and showing a lot of ass.
     
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    Iv been at a party where I have had sex with someone in the same room as another couple who were also at it...its very hot and arousing!
     
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    I really think it would be so friggin' hot to be watched.
    I don't know if Thorn would be up to it, but I would LOVE it.

    I feel like we would have such incredibly wild sex that whoever watched would need CPR and all other life saving strategies...
     
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    Well if you need a voyuer my number is ... Oh ... Oh wait ... you meant ... NUTS!
     
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    Haven't watched or been watched, but once on vacation our best friends were going at it on their bed, which was in the room next to ours. Very thin walls and I don't think they minded that we could hear every moan/groan! we got very turned on and my wife practically jumped on me - probably the fastest "quickie" we ever had.
     
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    A lady I once dated said she and her late husband had belonged to a sex club that had rooms with beds but no doors on the rooms, so you could stand outside the doorway and watch the bedroom games. I thought that sounded pretty hot, but we never went. (When her grandkids said, "Grandma said you're going to be our grandpa," I freaked and took off. I'd only been seeing her on weekends for a month.)
     
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    If you ever want to do a webcam thing with Deep and I, let us know.:dgrin
     
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    I saw that. It was soo funny. Rose, if your intersted in watching or being watch, see if there a good sex club near you and check it out. If you can find a high class one, then your set, but theres a lot of cheeze ones out there which arent worth while, but the good ones have tv's on the wall, private bedrooms, group bedrooms, bars, etc. Anything goes in there. You can go in there and see people getting bj or fucking in front of you. You can also approch other couples or be approched by someone. Dont have to be involed with others when you go there but its a huge turn on to watch.
    This is a place Deep and I go once in a while.
    http://www.mvclub.com/
     
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    I love to masteurbate while my wife watches.
     
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    I just spent a long time writting a message about not beeing watched but then I remembered...my last real bf and I would pretty much have sex anywhere we even had sex in front of a buch of our guy friends.Once we were at his house w a good friend of our and he whipped out the video camera and ryan filmed us..it was great I don't think I'll ever do it again but it felt so...exciting! and recently I had an ex bf ask if he could watch me and my fiance go at it sometime..I was kinda like "wtf?" :) but being watched is fun I guess
     
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    Mason please don't let your sex acts be filmed anymore. The last thing you probably want is to find out your "movie" was upload to an amatuer porn site.

    I dated a woman who was ok with us calling a another woman while we had sex. We tried to arrange to call bi women who I had slept with once so she could listen to us fuck on the phone. That was a few years ago and it didn't materialize do to timing. I would love to have someone listen on the phone though but have not had the opportunity to do that yet.