After 5 years of marriage, my wife recently told me that she may not have been a virgin after all. She tried to have sex several times before she met me, but was unable to, as no guys were able to break through her hymen. She got wet, they got maybe half the head into her lips and pounded on her hymen, but none of them could break it and get in. I broke it, but it took 8 hours of poking and pounding. She told me from the day we met "I have never done anything sexual with anyone" and I believed her because I had to work so hard to break the hymen. Last week, six years later, she told me about the other guys that did this. 3 questions: 1. Did I take her virginity? 2. Did she have sexual intercourse with these guys? 3. Did she lie to me?