I don't get to see my girlfriend very often. I'm a student, she's a teacher. We live about 5 hours apart. Not super far away, but were both fairly busy. The last time we had sex was Spring Break I think. Give or take a month, I honestly cannot remember. I went to stay with her over Labor Day weekend. I get there, set my clothes basket down beside her bed and see a pregnancy test box laying under her bed. Sit around for about 5 hours waiting for her to get home(was a fun wait...). I ask her about it right when she walks in the door. No wide eyed shocked look. I was ready to just walk out the door and go home if she looked surprised. Sat down and talked and i flat out asked her if she was sleeping with anybody else. She got pretty defensive, which to me, is a bad sign. I know, it's a dick move to ask something like that, but given the circumstances I think I was okay. Goes on to tell me that she hasn't had her period in a long time and she was scared and worried because of some tv show she saw. Told me the doctor said it could be caused by stress/weight gain/cancer/tumor. She didn't seem to understand that the fact that a used pregnancy test, paired with the fact that we haven't slept together in almost half a year upset me. If something is really wrong I will feel like a complete asshole, even more so for putting her through this. Okay ladies, tear me a new one if you want.