Wanna watch my wife with a hung black dude

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  1. John3303

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    My wife gets hot when we fantasy roleplay this one. So much so that she says she now thinks about having sex with a black adonis. She says that the fantasy has conditioned her mind into thinking that it would be ok and that's what I would want. We have been roleplaying this for 10 years and now I notice that she does flirt with handsome black men when we are out.

    What do you think about a wife wanting to act on a fantasy such as this?

    My fear would be if she had a black adonis with a big 9 inch dick, then that's all she would want after. Ladies, it is this a valid fear of mine?
     
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    Sounds like a dangerous game to me.
     
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    Of course it's a valid fear and that is something that you should talk to her about in great detail before you even consider moving forward with this fantasy.

    The fantasy allegedly conditioning her mind is in a way, unacceptable. There should always be a line between fantasy and reality and there should be a mutual agreement between a couple when deciding to dissolve that line.

    You need to communicate with her your fear. It is not silly nor irrational. Bringing a third person sexually into a relationship that has never had another person in it can be a dangerous thing. You two need to be on the same level with this. Have the same thoughts, the same feelings and of course, set up rules that under no circumstances should be broken should you decide to move forward with this.
     
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    The fact that you have this fear, is reason enough not to do it. You may not recover emotionally from it and it may actually be you that leaves her over it. Even tho she may say she never wants it again. That " fear" could become a monster that you can't shake...you would have to be extremely self confident, or happy with being a cuckold to be able to let her have her Adonis . Not for the faint of heart, for sure
     
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    Read the title of the post folks;
    He wants to watch..... he is expressing a desire ;)
     
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    I think it is a bad idea. But I will tell you this.....to me size does not matter.
     
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    "She says that the fantasy has conditioned her mind into thinking that it would be ok and that's what I would want."

    - And people tell me I'm crazy for thinking sexual fantasy -can- affect the reality of the relationship.
     
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    If you are very secure in your relationship watching your wife getting fucked is the most erotic and exciting thing ever. If you are not secure you need to have a chat and express that it's a bedroom fantasy and you can't handle the reality so she knows.
     
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    I have said it before and will say it again. If you cannot separate sex from love, do not experiment with multiple partners.

    Also, if this fantasy is more about a big cock, than an interracial fetish, don't bother. The whole "big black cock" thing is a myth. Men of afro heritage size averages are only about .5" larger than euro heritage men. Math wise, this means when trying to find a playmate with a tool larger than 7,5", your chances with white men would be 2-6 out of 100, while with black men the chances are around 5-9 out of 100 to find bigger than 7.5". not really much better odds. Other studies show that on average, white males have larger erect cocks. In a study by Canadian scientific journal, white men's average cock length is 6.4", two tenths of an inch longer than black cocks, which are an average of 6.2" long. Hispanic cocks are an average 6" long, and East Asian cocks are an average of 5.6" long. Either way, there isn't much difference in erect size. Most studies have shown that the erect lengths of White & Black Males are roughly the same. Or within close proximity of each other.

    It has said that the myth began because when flaccid, afro men look huge compared to euro men. Some say that this myth was instilled by racists to intimidate and anger any white men who saw a black man "stealing one of their women".

    The porn industry plays upon sexual racism. Many of the adult movies with Black men in starring roles use racial themes in the title and often as the flick’s primary selling point. Titles such as “Big Black Dicks, Little White Chicks,” Black Cock Down,” and ‘There´s a Black Man in My Wife´s Ass,” are a microcosm of the porn industry´s perpetuation of Black male sexual stereotypes.

    So, yea. Good luck with that.

    xx
     
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    "Black Cock Down"
    Thanks Cappy.. no I can never watch Black Hawk Down again..
     
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    The very first time I swapped my wife with a black guy, my wife bent over him so that he can see her milkies. She took him penis out of his shorts. She was flattered by the size and color. She placed almost 20 kisses on his dick and rubbed all over her face. She called it a black anaconda:). My wife couldn't put the whole big black in her mouth but she sucked as deeply as she could and deepthroated a bit. Once he started ravaging my wife's body, she was like 'oh my god you are a beast'. She wanted to be lifted while fucking, turned around and banged hard as if she couldn't do anything but get fucked. Once he started fucking my wife, she could barely stay on the bed, she was jumping all over screaming. She had a very long orgasm and stayed there tired on the bed for an hour. She fucked him twice that night ;)
     
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    Cappy Dick is right: I have said it before and will say it again. If you cannot separate sex from love, do not experiment with multiple partners.

    Have watched her with a black man, we both loved it and that's that. Never went back for seconds, didn't damage our relationship and we were fine. This however may not be the case with you so before you do it..... think think and then think again. Once you done that, talk talk and then talk again!
     
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    I for one am very territorial. So I wouldn't dare even consider this as a great idea. For those of you that are able to do this sort of thing I tip my hat to you with much respect. I just can't in any way agree to any type of wife sharing. She is mine and I own her in every way. Of course these are our terms and her words. Anyway thats another discussion. Good luck with your decision.
     
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    Sounds like you want it more than your wife.
     
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    I knew you liked me. Thanks for the present English Dad...
     
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    Cappy has words of wisdom here....
     
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    I keep trying to tell people that it's us Hebrews who are the extremely well hung ones! Why do you think we have to have part cut off? Hahaha! :D

    But seriously, folks, see Cappy_Dick's answer above for more or less my views on the matter.
     
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    I know this is an older thread, but it caught my eye.

    Be VERY secure or don't do it.

    I fantasize about my wife with a young black hunk. It will never happen but at least I can dream.

    A great site www.dfwknight.com. Black man servicing white wives.
     
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    As a black man, there's a weird dichotomy in my feelings towards such behavior. On one hand to be the "Black bull" to some late 30's and up housewife sounds like an exciting prospect, especially if she's a petite athletic little thing with an out of shape husband...it just speaks to my inner competitor...but the racial connotations bother me a little bit, ultimately I'd be being used as an object to please his wife, a self aware dildo of sorts..plowing his field evolved to plowing his wife...just doesn't sit too well with me.
     
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