Right down to business. I'm 36, sexually active, and am having problems that seem more like what someone 15 years older might be experiencing - basically having trouble getting completely hard, and then premature ejaculation. This has been going on for about 6 months or so, and I have no idea where it's coming from. Prior to these past 6 months, I'd actually been in a several years-long stage of the best sex of my life - able to last for as pretty much as long as I needed to and able to go several times a session. I don't think it's completely physiological...the "morning wood" erections are still pretty hard, it's just the ones that count that are often not up to snuff. I know some/most of it is mental - if you start thinking you won't get hard, you'll get nervous about it, and you get a vicious cycle. But the premature ejaculation - how is that mental? Even with blowjobs, I'm often done in a minute or two. I don't currently have a steady girlfriend, so there is a little bit of a lack-of-comfort issue with partners you don't know as well. But I don't remember that being a problem in the past. I've never tried Viagra, and would like to think I don't have to - that there might be an easier and hopefully non-medical solution to this. Any suggestions?