Visions for Canceling Desire to Masturbate

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  1. Logger

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    Sometimes I feel like masturbating when I really have other stuff I should be doing. So one way I delay my gratification is to keep my hands off my crotch. But sometimes I still feel like masturbating, even though I am not manipulataing myself. Today I thought of a dish of chocolate ice cream. That helped me get started on other activities for household chores.

    Theoretically, the more energy I put into the yard and the cars, the more my wife will be rewarding me for my efforts, with delerious sexual exploits.

    There was an SF thread where the Lady was upset with her husband because he liked to masturbate to porn, after he had made love to her. I told the lady that I liked to jack off after a few hours, and enjoyed my partner to cuddle with me while I maturbated. The lady told me that she was convinced that her husband was addicted to porn, and that he had agreed to get help.
    Link to SF Thread:http://sexualforums.com/talk/showthread.php?t=487&highlight=addiction

    So this thread-starter post is an acknowledgment to LDHONEY that I sometimes have ro struggle with self-discipline to delay sexual enjoyment.

    I am just thinking up some good visualizations that will help me to put off my enjoyment of masturbation, when I have important things to get done. Maybe somebody else has some tricks to share.

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  2. Giles

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    *Think of Joan Rivers naked (Actually, just think of her talking. And talking. And talking.)

    *Envision Hannibal Lecter's idea of a sexy good time.

    *Cheap bourbon milkshake

    *Remember that dream you've had of having to make a speech in class and you've forgotten your pants? (Actually this passes for a sex dream for me, but hopefully your mileage will vary.)

    *The sex video you rented was boxed incorrectly, and after the first few harrowing minutes you realize you're watching the homoerotic classic Downtown Tool and Die. (Also, assume the clerk thought you rented it intentionally!)

    I can probably provide more helpful hints should you need them. I'm here to help.
     
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    There is no valid reason to change the way you feel about masturbation. If better sex with your wife is not reason enough to abstain from masturbation for the period in question, you have a larger problem than needing a vision.

    You need to change your way of thinking, not rationalize your masturbation to fit your current desire. The trap of life is to continue doing the same thing, and hope for a more satisfying result.

    The reason you masturbate is probably because you do not find sex with your wife to be fulfilling enough. You can change that by simply changing your way of thinking about sex with her, and working to make that sex completely fulfilling.

    Masturbation is a great hobby but when it detracts from your life's business it becomes an addiction which must be looked at with honesty and openmindedness. The only normally successful way to deal with anything one is addicted to is complete abstinence.
     
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