I need your help. I just don't know what to do. I am 19 years-old and a virgin. I have an older boyfriend let's say who is about 30 years-old. He wants to have sex with me and asked me like a lot of times. He just put pressure on me. Yesterday, I went to sleep at his house and he asked me for sex, I told him I was not sure I really wanted to do it and like he put his hands down there and started taking my pants off... He told me I would have sex with him if I really liked him. I had to tell him to stop. I don't know what to do, whether or not I'm ready. I am just scared : of the pain, of the fact that he's far more experienced than me. Will he go slowly ? And are guys always this pushy with girls when comes sex ?