Here is the scenario: Your SO lives about 5 hrs from you. You get to see your roommates who happen to be your good friends all the time and play as many video games as you want with them. You get to see your SO every two weeks for 2 1/2 days. Do video games come before this person? Say you are chatting with them on the internet and suddenly your friend comes in and says you need to come play with them. What do you do? Say nah, maybe later and keep chatting with your SO or just leave your SO hanging and join the guys?