Vibrators - For the ladies!

Discussion in 'Sexual Foreplay and Techniques' started by mtm1980, Jul 3, 2008.

  1. mtm1980

    mtm1980 New Member

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    So, I have discussed before that my girlfriend sometimes has a hard time having an orgasm, and I know that's not the only goal during sex, but sometimes I just want that for her. I am going to get a vibrator because she says that will get the job done.

    I have two questions:

    1. Any suggested vibs?

    2. As long as I am the one using it on her, is the intimacy of the act still there?

    Any help would be awesome!
     
  2. Barbwire

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    http://www.sexualforums.com/talk/showthread.php?t=14816

    Check out that link for some reviews.

    As far as I'm concerned, the vibe doesn't ruin the intimacy, it's a man that doesn't know how to use one that kills the mood. I prefer to use it on myself and let him assist in other ways.
     
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    There are a lot of great vibrator and sex toy threads on this forum, and even some that review their performances.

    As far as the intimacy issue, there's no reason why using a vibe on your partner (or even her using it on herself while you watch) is going to take away any intimacy. The vibe is just a tool intended to enhance the experience, but it's not the main attraction. It doesn't replace the feeling of skin on skin and shared bodily warmth.
     
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    The intimacy of using toys together is fabulous. My husband introduced me to them and it has created a whole new world for us, and for me alone. You will most likely find your sexual world opens up once you introduce vibes...
     
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    What a nice thing to say. :) Thank you...I'm glad you like that I'm a freak. :brow I agree, the intimacy is definitely still there whether I'm watching or operating. ;)

    Drop any and all inhibitions you might have (and encourage her to do the same)...my wife loves the rabbit-style vibes, so you might want to try one of those.

    BD