So, I have discussed before that my girlfriend sometimes has a hard time having an orgasm, and I know that's not the only goal during sex, but sometimes I just want that for her. I am going to get a vibrator because she says that will get the job done. I have two questions: 1. Any suggested vibs? 2. As long as I am the one using it on her, is the intimacy of the act still there? Any help would be awesome!