Hey peeps!! Here's hoping I can get some insights from u guys! Well, i've been seein this girl for a while now and we're both really into each other which is great! Really love the company of this girl! Anyway everything is great apart from sex! I can't really say why it's not good tho but it just isn't! Few times now, i couldn't shoot my load whilst on top and when she gets on top, i completely loose any sensation i had! I also don't really enjoy how she gives me a bj and also don't have any sensation during this. So now, it's happening more and more now that i can't get it up at all or if i do, then doesn't last very long! First time she got pretty upset with me and we ended up not speaking for over a week! We got back together and it was fine. Now it's happened again and i'm gettin quite scared now! I'm just 28, so what could be happenin to me?? It's also affecting my confidence somewhat as now when we get together, all think about is hopin i get hard! This is very unusual for me as well as i'm quite red blooded and get hard with minimal stimulation. It's also been fine with prev girls and i could also quite easily have 2 or 3 orgasms on a bounce before passing out. Admittedly tho, this is the first girl i've been with that i have an emotional connection for. Most of the other girls have either been shotgun relationships or one nighters. Oh yeah, she also does say that she's unable to 'feel me emotionally' during sex! So that's it.... What should i do? Is it possible for two people with strong mutual feelings to be just sexually incompatible??