Hey everyone, my name is Jeff and I am new here. I was hoping I could get some advice on something that has really been bothering me. My girlfriend and I have been together for about 3 years now. We are both 23 years old. For the most part everything is good. However, when it comes to the bedroom - we have a few issues. We don't have sex very often. We both have pretty hectic schedules but I don't think that is the reason behind it. She is on birth control, and about half the of the month she tells me she "can't" have sex right now. Sometimes it may be even longer... She implies because she is still having her period. So, I have to be patient. However, I accept that and whenever she can't have sex, we will lay in bed and mess around and what not. However, it seems as though she never wants to ONLY satisfy me. She will start touching me or something, and then all of a sudden say she doesn't feel good. Or has to go to the bathroom. Then she cuts everything off. It's almost as if she wants to make a statement that if she "can't", then I can't either. Tonight really kind of did it for me. She was teasing me a bit, and then she told me "see this is how it feels for me when I can't". Then all of a sudden she tells me that she doesn't feel well. What gets me is that I am always more than happy to make her feel good and please her, and I don't get that same feeling from her. It's like it takes so much for her to satisfy me in the slightest bit. All of this is really beginning to boil up and I would really appreciate any input. :ugh Thanks in advance!