Vanilla Sex

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  1. HotForHoney

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    What does it mean to you?
    Do you enjoy it?

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    soft,gentle,thoughtful sex...willing to show you :D
     
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    Not really sure what it means.
    Almost a meaningless term if it is taken in its meaning of - 'normal' sex.
    Any sex that is mutually agreed and enjoyable to both is 'normal'.
    It can be as Ginge says (God I'm agreeing with him) soft, gentle, slow, mutually exploring and discovering, mutually giving and taking, mutually satisfying sex - or if it is 'normal' for you both then it can be hard, strong, no holds barred animalistic sex.

    Which every I full enjoy both, separately, or mixed, where the soft slow is the prelude and the harder 'stuff' is the conclusion.
     
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    I'll pick you up at LGA
     
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    urbandictionary.com: Sex that involves no twists or kinkiness, and no S&M. Basically plain regular sex. Typically sweet and happy and very lovey-dovey.

    Me: Unexciting sex
     
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    your taken lol
     
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    its only "Unexciting" if you allow it to be
     
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    I don't have a ring on my finger..... Yet!
     
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    ^ now where did i put them washers :eek:
     
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    Hey !!!!!!!!
     
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    I don't think she expects paying :oops:
     
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    Disagree... Sometimes whatever you do, it may be unexciting. If you make things exciting, then it's not vanilla:p
     
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    What do you have to do to make sex exciting, it is exciting in itself, if it isn't then just forget it.
     
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    That's what I meant. And if it does get exciting, it's not vanilla anymore:D
     
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    For me, lifeless missionary. When she lays there lifeless, nothing vocal, bascily just a hole to stick it in. Haven't sex like that in 32 yrs. Don't miss it.
     
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    So according to you vanilla means unexciting/unexcited.
    Sorry that explanation doesn't make sense to me.
    If it was true then that explains why I don't understand the term - because I've never had sex that I didn't find exciting in some way - so I've never had vanilla sex.
     
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    OK... But I did
     
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    How many women have you been with? I've been with a few that will ruin most women for you. Vanilla is more of a perspective. If you've only had a few, maybe you haven't had vanilla sex or what I would consider vanilla blows your mind.
     
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    What about duty sex where one partner just lies there bc the other wants sex? That's boring and pretty "un-exciting"
     
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    Where does "making love" fit in on the sex-excitement-spectrum?
     
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