so, im not into bdsm or anything but ive deffinitely got a kinky streak in me. im also very submissive. the guy im with right now is VERY vanilla. took me months just to get him to do doggy style. im starting to suspect hes kind of a sub too...hes very dominant in our relationship but when it comes to sex hes a little to gentle and timid. can someone give me ideas how to get him to be more dominant during sex? Or maybe just some good easy positions that could change things up a little?