Long time no see SF. so here is my problem. my girlfriend and i have been going through so many different birth controls and we have finally found one that works for us and makes her like sex. lately we have been having so much sex it hurts... hurts her. i look at her vagina and i see tears and little rips where its all red and the skin is separating. this always happens every couple weeks. it makes me frustrated because shouldnt it have adapted already? she likes it rough and i like to give it to her, but i cant fully enjoy it knowing shes hurting. shes a great girlfriend and always says she wants me to finish despite her pain, i do as she asks but its not the same knowing shes hurting. what should i do SF? anyway to treat this? how long do i wait? i dont want to stretch her vagina out to the point where we dont feel anything.