Vagina; Pigment

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  1. MordsithLove

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    Ok I can't find much on this topic. So I guess I'll need to step up and ask.

    My bits are kinda dark, I am a mixed gal (mostly black and Japanese) and I feel really insecure about it. To me, it's repulsive and there's not much I could do to change that. It looks ugly, scary and the least bit attractive. My SO doesn't mind it at all, but I do. I have seen many dark/tanned pigmented women with some very dark bits, darker than mine and they're even more unattractive.

    So my question is, maybe it's just me? Or is a dark vagina really unappealing?


    To the ladies with pretty bits, I'm jealous!!! Lol
     
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    every ladies bits are beautiful :)
     
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    i kinda feel the same way about men's bits, to be honest.... the dark ones look kinda scary to me.
     
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    It's just you. If your guy likes it then I wouldn't worry about it.
     
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    I don't find it unappealing atall...
     
  6. MordsithLove

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    Redicsgirl: I feel the same too about penises/balls.

    Agfunk: He claims to be ok with it. But when I mentioned my dark vag versus his complaints of having a small penis, he laughed. However, he is actually average, and I don't know why he thinks its so small...me getting off by it should really brush off those insecurities of his.

    I don't want to offend those with dark bits (male or female), by all means if I were single and felt for the person, the pigment I could look past.
     
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    In my opinion it doesn't matter if there dark light as long as he enjoys you that should be more than enough. I'm insure about my boobs but my husband loves them so I'm cool with it now....sorta Lol.
     
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    i think that is probably a fairly common concern; not just color but are the lips too big or too small, too this or too that. Same with men and penises. What is comes down to is that your partners will already be into you before they ever see your bits and I have never heard any one say that they got that far but the color of the pussy was a deal breaker. Be proud of your heritage and how that effects how you look; if that is your primary concern about your appearance you should feel fortunate!
     
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    It's relieving to know others opinion on it, and I must say my insecurity is a little at ease now that I've asked. Of course if you're really into someone mentally or physically for the matter, the appearance of their bits shouldn't matter.

    Just growing up as a little girl I always thought girls had brown/darker bits...my mother and her mother are like that, so it's what I expected...until I saw nude photos and porn for the first time...then I was like whoa....she has a pretty one...and mines not so pretty. Lol

    Friggin porn ruined it for me lol
     
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    I'm sure your bits are beautiful ;-)
     
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    I dont mind the dark color at all. I think it is sexy!.. any color for that matter. haha.
     
  12. MordsithLove

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    I like my size, just the pigment bothers me. Ive been blessed with quite a lot, I should be thankful nonetheless.

    Thank ya love!
     
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    If all vaginas were the same. It would be very boring..

    If your lover doesn't like it then there not the right one for u..
     
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  14. MordsithLove

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    It would be boring lol

    He doesn't mind it at all! I'm my worst critic :( even with simple things like, what I am wearing for the day lol
     
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    i like them alittle darker my self by the way your are sexy, love the smile
     
  16. MordsithLove

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    Welp that's awesome :)

    And thanks...but how do you know that? ??? My album is private ???
     
  17. Sexyforhim

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    mines dark to but I love mine. i call it my two toned love pot. I am happy that mines not just white and pink. I like a little flavor. lol
     
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    lol sorry My wife is sexyforhim and just4fun is a really good friend of hers. She was showing her your pics and i was looking over the shoulder. Hope that dosnt make you mad.
     
  19. MordsithLove

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    Ahh okay! Nope I'm not mad, just freaked me out a little lol
     
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    Ill need to learn on how to love mine :)