Using the same toys with different lovers?

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  1. KateM

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    [FONT=&quot]Does anyone do this? Personally I’d be a bit revolted by it. even if it was something like handcuffs that don’t actually touch any private parts, I’d worry that another woman’s secretions could have ended up on the handcuffs during sex. It’s perfectly possible, considering a lot of women have no problem with their secretions being smeared everywhere. Like the guy touches their vagina and then fondles them all over.[/FONT]
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    [FONT=&quot]Do you buy new sex toys for each new lover? Like a new butt plug or vibe or dildo for every new woman? Maybe even new handcuffs?[/FONT]
     
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    Toys can and should be cleaned after every use. I don't see the problem with using the same toys with different people.
     
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    Use the right cleaning material after every use and its like having a new toy each time.
     
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    [FONT=&quot]I don’t think just using soap and water would suffice. Would they have to be sterilized with some chemical?[/FONT]

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    [FONT=&quot]I bet no one cleans handcuffs.[/FONT]

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    [FONT=&quot]even if theyre sterilized, its yuck to think of sharing an anal plug or dildo or vibe with others
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    Well my tongue, fingers and penis have all been used before so does't that count too?
     
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    [FONT=&quot]And I don’t know how whips and crops can be cleaned. I think it would be gross to be whipped or cuffed by anything that was used on someone else.[/FONT]
     
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    But you boil all them....

    Don't you? :eek
     
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    I think it would offend me more because of the principle of the matter. It would feel as If my partner is reusing condoms on me, or when a couple divorces and the man gives the same ring to his new wife to be!!

    Bitch Im new so get new shit for me!! lol
     
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    Hello Neighbors...

    Can you say OCD Germophobe?

    That's great boys and girls. I knew you could.

    xx
     
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    Restaurants re-use china and cutlery and glasses so what's the diff?
     
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    That's exactly how I feel.
     
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    I guess I don't see how this is even an issue, for the exact reason lbushwalker brings up.

    As long as the toys have been washed and batteries have been changed it seems as if the toy should be as good as new, haha.