Hi Guys, I am so so so upset right now and I really need advice because I don't know what to think or do. My boyfriend is perfect in every way I can imagine and he treats me like no other guys ever has. He rings me everyday and takes me out and treats me like I'm the best thing in the world. I love him so much which is why this is really hard. THE FACTS : He came over to my house this weekend and used my computer and somehow set his hotmail to automatically log in. I know I shouldn't have been snooping but he had a brand new email from today, after he had gone home from my house. It was for a dating site called PlentyOfFish . I checked it and he had sent two messages TODAY. Both contained gifts, which like a little flower or teddy bear image thingy on the website. The first read: "hey hoydee hey wats crak-a-lakin? omg u 2 are gorjuz sozz just had 2 say have a good 1 joolz i goz tah hat on" and the second "you sound like a realy fun person to be around and i would like to get to no you some more????????????????do you go out clubing mucho??" HIS RESPONSE : When I confronted him. He said the website was just like Myspace or Bebo. To me it pretty much looks like a straight forward dating site. He only wrote the second one because the girl said she was looking for friends, and his friend wrote the first one. I know he must be lying because "crak-a-lakin" is his catchphrase, he signed it and he identified himself in the picture so thats a big warning sign right? His profile saids he is single and he is looking for an intimate encounter but he could have just not edited it. I didn't look at his profile until after I had got off the phone with him so I couldnt ask him about it. Also on the phone he was very defensive, he told me he wanted to be with me and no one else but he did hang up on me after I told him I didn't know if I wanted him to call me later. I love him so much but I could never ever let someone take advantage of me. He has cheated on partners in the past. I know he loves big busted girls and the girl had big bust and I am only petite. HE SENT THESE TODAY AFTER HE GOT HOME FROM MY HOUSE! Please what should I do I don't want to let him get away with it just because I love him.