Found out today one of my ex lovers is pregnant. We don't see each other that often, maybe 2-3 times a month. I know she hasn't been seeing other guys the last few months as I know she's madly in love with me and been looking for a relationship that I declined after which she suggested we be just ****buddies. I fell for that trap unfortunately and we ended up banging each others brains out the last 8 months. Right from the start we didn't use any protection as shetold me she was on the injection...I am also aware that she moved on to the pill about two months ago and I guess thats where she ****ed up! Anycase...the sex was good but I don't see myself raising a little nipper with this bird. I am considering trying to convince her to have an abortion but I don't she think will agree to this. I know she is strongly against abortion and will rather try and raise the baby alone. I can't afford to support the baby financialy at the moment and neither can she. Have anyone else been in this type of situation before and what did you do or what would you suggest..?