Understanding female orgasm and ejaculation

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  1. potatohead

    potatohead New Member

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    Ok just need a little advice here. Before my most recent boyfriend I had 7 sexual partners and never really thought sex was all it cracked up to be. With my most recent partner I really started to enjoy sex and then one day woooah felt this amazing feeling inside, which was when i figured I had actually had my first orgasm. So I now frequently orgasm as I have mastered where it is and how he can stimulate it but heres the question.....should i ejaculate? I mean I have ejaculated from foreplay before but never from intercourse alone?Am I normal???
     
  2. heelfetish

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    Not many women 'ejaculate' from orgasm, at least in the sense that many of today's porn flicks would have you believe. If ejaculation is important to you, you and your partner can work on hitting 'the right spot' together. Otherwise I wouldn't worry about it. :)
     
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    You're perfectly normal. The percentage of women who can actually squirt while orgasming is pretty low. I'm pretty sure the shooting across the room squirting seen on porn films is faked anyway. I myself have never squirted before, but I have dribbled. :)
     
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    I have never ejaculated from intercourse. It has only been from foreplay, as the finger can be G-spot can be mani'pulated by the agile finger... his cock is not quite so 'bendable' :lol

    there are positions that, theoretically, are condusive to G-spot orgasms (which 'usually' can cause squirting or dribbling). Doggy can get the spot. Also, legs-over-the-shoulders position, as his cock is aimed at an angle that points upward toward your pelvic or naval area. And NOT ALL WOMEN will ever ejaculate, regardless of their erotic, sensual nature.

    As far as "normal" - by all means. You're as normal as any woman :tup
     
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    New to this forums. Certainly the ejaculation can come with orgasams and you can have many orgasams and ejaculations in one sessions. It certainly takes a lot of understanding on both partners and the special ability on the ladies part. Us just have to know when to act.
     
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    You are right, Japo. A woman has to be able to accept it and allow it. It can be very uncomfortable, unless you are knowledgable about what you are feeling. Otherwise, most women will say it's too uncomfortable to endure.

    ....Endure it, girls..... it's worth it!!! :)
     
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    Damn, you sound hot. :brow <bfg>
    My wife has done it in the past when she's really turned on, but she too worries about everything from getting the bed wet (who cares) to what I think (I love it when my partner it so into the moment that she loses control!). If it feels good and all involved don't mind, how can it be wrong?
     
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    So Rose (or any other woman who's experienced it), is an ejaculatory orgasm more "satisfying"? I've mastered the "whole body dry orgasm" thing, and it's great, but for me the ejaculatory orgasm is much more satisfying. I'm just wondering if it's the same for a woman. An ex of mine experience them, but we never talked about them much; it embarrassed her -- making a big mess that necessitated a change of bedding.
     
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    I have only experienced g-spot orgasms twice. Both times, they were very mild compared to clitoral orgasms. For me, it took a long time to orgasm from g-spot stimulation, and the end result was less than spectacular. So, yeah, it's fun to make a puddle, but I don't think it can compare to a good old-fashioned clitoral screamer.
     
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    In my personal opinion, no.

    However, it is like comparing apples to oranges, as the buildup and subsequent orgasms are totally different. I'm with CL - I'll choose the good ole fashioned "starts at the top of my head---- and blows my brains out through my toes" clitoral 'O' anyday :brow
     
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    If G-spot orgasms are for real, and girls really can squirt a load across the room, then I am envious as hell. I have tried a thousand times. I have about every curved G=spoy vibe on the market, and I can never seem to make it happen. I've never felt as though I was about to pee, like I have heard is the feeling just before hand. I've seen the girls squirt in pornos, and I just assummed the are just peeing. So if this is all for real, then I am humbled.
     
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    Pornstars who ejaculate work like crazy to get the speciality down. First, they are hypersexual, can cum relatively easier, and can have sex longer than most other women--allowing for more practice to find the right "spot". Second, they do alot of pelvic floor muscle excerises (ie kegel) to strengthen their pubococcygeus and bulbospongiosus muscles--producing the powerful stream. The "squirting" that is done in porn is usually not accompanied by orgasms and the fluid composition is slightly similar to urine with the addition of some sugar and prostate specific antigens (PSA) from the Skenes Gland. Whether the fluid is actually pee is up for debate but the chemical composition is definitely different from normal urine. So, yeah, I guess you can say its for real...sort of.

    http://www.sgsonline.org/sgsinc/patiented/educate_articles/edpi002.htm
     
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    Pornstars who ejaculate work like crazy to get the speciality down. They are hypersexual, can cum relatively easier, and can have sex longer than most other women--allow for more practice to find the right "spot". Second, they do alot of pelvic floor muscle excerises (ie kegel) to strengthen their pubococcygeus and bulbospongiosus muscles--producing the powerful stream. The "squirting" that is done in porn is usually not accompanied by orgasms and the fluid composition is slightly similar to urine with the addition of some sugar and prostate specific antigens (PSA) from the Skenes Gland.

    http://www.sgsonline.org/sgsinc/patiented/educate_articles/edpi002.htm
     
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    I've given a few women at lots of different times combined clitoral and g-spot orgasms, but only two women have ejaculated. One was a squirt but not so much fluid, the other dribbled a lot of fluid, enough to change the sheets. I had sex with the woman who dribbled three or four times, and every time I did it the same way and every time she ejaculated. She told me that very few men helped her to orgasm, and I was special!

    I regard the g-spot as a sure-fire way to get any women to orgasm, but a g-spot orgasm doesn't often result in ejaculation.
     
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    this is a very interesting topic...

    My angel and I have learned how to do this...it is real, however, she does not squirt across the room like the videos show. It is more like taking a good pee...and before the skeptics say that is what it is, let me assure you...we are into water sports also, I have seen, felt and tasted both types of her liquid, and her ejaculate is not urine. I believe that is the reason most women are not comfortable with squirting, because they think they are going to pee all over themselves, the bed and/or their partner.

    The feeling does come on like you have to pee, even if you just did.

    First and foremost you have to be comfortable and relaxed for it to happen. And not afraid of making a mess on the bed or yourselves.

    She can have a mind blowing orgasm the same time as ejaculation but not always. either way, it does make her legs quiver.

    That said, she has tried to do it for herself but cannot. When I help we literally soak us and the bed sheets. (we always put down a plastic sheet covered with a couple of old sheets)

    The ways that we have discovered for doing this are...
    With my fingers, massaging her g-spot, which she prefers way over toys.
    Doggy style, standing with her hands on a chair, table etc...
    laying down, with her legs up on my shoulders.
    and my favorite is with me on my back, her straddling me, I plant my feet flat on the bed, arch my back and raise my butt and her off the bed as high as I can. Her position is like sitting on a chair, she does all the moving,
    and when she starts to ejaculate she stands up and lets it flow...soaking me, the bed everything...

    For the ones who are not sure, don't knock it til ya try it.
    and for the ones who want to try, it doesn't always happen the first time around, don't give up.
     
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    My wife along the with other 2 whom I have been with before I met my wife doesn't ejaculate everytime they have or had an orgasm. Only the 2 women whom I was seeing before my wife could ejaculate from foreplay and intercourse,but my wife never have ejaculated nor had an orgasm from intercourse with anyone,the guys before me nor me.I am the ONLY guy since shehave been having sex that she has ever had an orgasm with. Like the other person said,You are normal and not all women has orgasms and ejaculates from intercourse.Hope that will help you.
     
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    I agree female ejaculation doesn't seem too common. Female orgasm without ejaculation is perfectly normal.
     
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    interesting thing to revive this thread particularly after all i learned in a last 11 months.
    i did not beleive it myself but..well.. here is the good news: ANY woman (well, almost) can have a squirting orgasm/ejaculate. all depends on a person who teaches you that stuff. took me 2 days - first day - massages, etc, and the second day was IT. flooding. 2 of my gf's did not beleive it first, now they learned it too. only thing - their husbands are very conservative and they both dont know HOW to present this new-aquired gift at home... any suggestions with bringing such a news home unsuspected?
     
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    Well in my experience with my fiance she did not talk about it. One day while I was going down on her it just happened. It was the best feeling ever for me to have her ejaculate on me. Now I know everyone is different but it has to in the least be a turn on for the guys. I think it will be good to have your friends hear that if they told their guys they would probably be jumping for joy. As said in this thread not many women can do it and if you possess such a beautiful talent it should definitely be shared. Just my opinion. Communication is key in any relationship and in my opinion if they said something to them or simply do as my fiance did they will be very pleased. I dont see any reason why they would be displeased.
    Communicate! Communicate! Communicate!

    And congrats to you!
     
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    that's exactly the "issue". their guys are turned off by this... they wont even give it a try...
     
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