Unconventional?

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  1. WC1989

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    So a few friends of mine have made fuss over my BFs and mines arrangement. Since we are both college students we agreed to split and alternate expenses (dates etc..) . That way the cost doesn't just go one person. What are your thoughts on this?
     
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    If that was a mutual decision, who cares what others think. If it works for you two then that is what counts. Plus sex is free so do that more often and you are all set!
     
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    It's perfect!!!
     
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    ....condoms/birth control pills aren't free!!!.... Neither are diapers/formula!
     
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    Well i would suspect that was part of the mutual agreement. Part of the shared expenses.
     
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    Can't for the life of me see that as anything but fair and equitable nor even unusual in any way.
     
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    Nah, your friends are right it's weird and wrong that your Man isn't providing you everything while you stay home popping out babies and other such womanly habits...
    Also: I am from the Dark Ages. :p ;)
     
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    Sounds great to me
     
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    Dark ages alright and me thinking all along you modern dude, how wrong was I?
    But I also know you are a great confrontationist!
     
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    Sounds perfect to me.
     
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    Actually condoms are free at any health clinic by the handful and with most (if not all) insurance now pills are covered free of charge. I haven't paid a cent on mine.
     
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    When you're in college you have to be frugal, so if it works for you then I don't see why it should matter to others. You can make either a long or short road of becoming less concerned about what people think.

    Unconventional is not the same as immoral. It's not like we're talking robbery or murder. What I am saying by way of exaggeration is that whether something is unconventional or conventional does not matter, since in the end it is a matter of preference. Sadly, I think friendships and marriages sometimes end over arguments about mere preferences.
     
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    Sounds like a great arrangement to me. Not sure why your friends think there is anything wrong with it. My wife and I have always done it that way. Sometimes I pay on a date and sometimes she pays. as far as the household bills we split them pretty evenly. We each maintain our own accounts and always have.
     
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    I paid for very few dates. The girls paid most of the time in college and parents paid for a number of them in high school.
     
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    Aw, Bushwalker you know that if I've used the "Winky" and "Tongue-Out" emoticons in a post that I'm just foolin'.
    Besides, based off all I've posted on here ever, do I really strike you as that sort of a person? :eek:
     
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    Sorry 10_XL I should have ended with a :) so that you also know that I'm equally fooling ;)
     
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    My wife, then GF and I did that exact same thing in college. We both worked during college and always shared expenses, even had a joint bank account before we got married.
     
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    Who are those reactionary friends so easily bewildered by such a benign modus vivendi?
    You have to ask yourself, what possible ulterior motive they may have in taking this position.

    Maybe they fear you might upset their own little ecosystem
    by shining light on a different way of doing things.
    Perhaps quite a few find you ravishingly fetching and would love
    nothing better than to break you up and see you back on the "market"

    Who can tell?
     
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    Awesome.
    You do what works for YOU, not them if you are fine that ay.
    you would be a keeper for me if we dated, showing that you care, not just let a guy spend all his money on you.
     
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