Unable to reach orgasm from GF either hand or oral?

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  1. xplodez

    xplodez New Member

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    I have no problems finishing during sex but when it comes to oral or even for her using her hand to jerk me off i just dont even come close.. Am i too used to the way that i masturbate that only sex is able to keep up? is there a way to over come this and learn how to let go from oral sex from my gf? any info would be appreciated..:)
     
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    I would be more inclined to believe that
    You was taught that those things were taboo.
    And you have a guilt feeling when doing those things
    and that is keeping you from cumming.

    Hiker
     
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    infact i have never been taught anything bad about sex, but i do know what your talking about.. Part of me thinks she is not that good at it either...? but i really dont know.
     
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    I don't think it's that unusual. The oral has to be really good for me to cum and at time, I get so self conscious about how long it's taking me that it just makes it worse. When it comes to her hand job you should be able to compare that to your technique. If it’s not as good place your had over hers and give her some training.
     
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    Agreed about the oral. Reverse psychology at work! If your girlfriend doesn't enjoy giving you head and only does it as a "favour"... that's probably whats going on. Whatever you want to happen will suddenly become difficult :p
     
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    I can cum much easier recieving oral
    mabey I'm just an odd ball.

    Hiker
     
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    Same here. Once I took so long, the girl just gave up and went to sleep. I don't think she liked me much anyway.
     
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    Maybe I'm lucky but if she uses her hand to stroke the bottom of shaft while works the top with her mouth I have never had a problem cumming from oral. I can also cum from handjob as long as there is lube involved. Teach her what you like if she isn't doing it correctly.