Unable to masturbate while I'm wet...huh?

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  1. LilBAM

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    I hear often about how if you're wet, like in a shower, the water can serve as a lubricant, making it easier to masturbate. Therefore, I imagine a lot of people masturbate in the shower, since it's not only private time, but you're also wet, which is supposed to help. However, I'm the opposite. I can't masturbate at all while I'm in the shower, there's just no way I can finish in the shower. I find this odd that a place most people can successfully masturbate in, I can't do in, but I can in most other places(like on my bed, when I'm dry). Lubricant does the same thing. Any ideas as to why this is, and is it out of the ordinary?
     
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    Water is a shitty lubricant. Not only does it lack a silicone or oil base but, it actually adds to friction because it washes away your natural body oils.
     
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    soap seems to work well.
     
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    Take/try n put some vegetable oil in small bottles for it ,like soybean oil,inexpensive,works well,apply P.R .N.,=whenever necessary.Women have a dryness problem sometimes,they tell them veggie oil may encourage infections,but men are outies,so no problem here.
     
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    Men can get UTI's like women do, it's just not as common. I'd be careful what I rubbed on my pecker if I had one.
     
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    another factor my be conditioning. when your in bed your body is in a different position. your body may be used to say orgasming whilst lay down. if you haven't already, masturbate whilst standing up and get your body use to it, then try again in the shower.
    and yes, water = crappy lubrication.
    also your body may be conditioned to orgasming without lubricant...
     
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    Just my two cents here, I can't masturbate for shit in a tub or shower. First off, no lube, water SUCKS. Second, if I'm having a really GOOD orgasm, fuck standing on two feet.

    My overwhelming urge to NOT break a bone over stems the need to cum while in the shower.
     
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    Also, the fantasy that sex is good in a pool or hot tub or ocean is a myth. Water is bad for sex in many ways.
     
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    Hmm. Interesting. Thanks. :) I guess I won't bother doing that in the shower then, my body's just not the kind that can do it there. :p Also interesting point about water removing the oils CL, I didn't think of that.
     
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    why the name lilbam? anything to do with Bam Margera?
     
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    Ummm...no soap=ouch. Conditioner on the other hand, bueno IMO
    .LOL
     
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    Well, I have found out lotion does WONDERS. Putting lotion on there and rubbing it all over my penis can get me from soft to super hard INSTANTLY. It feels great! It also makes masturbating feel a whooooooole lot better. Screw doing it in the shower from now on, lol.
     
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    i hate trying to masturbate when i am wet in the shower cuz after that the whole day my dick burns lol. soap dosent help
     
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    and yes lotion is great
     
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    No Soap !! Conditioner only ! Trust me, I'm an expert in all things materbatory !:lol