Unable to cum

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  1. jjslpsg

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    No, there is nothing scandalous or anything like that, that would affect our sex life. Thanks for asking, it was worth considering.
     
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    I am 60 years old, but have never had these kinds of problems before. I don't think that I am concentrating too hard, but I will try to relax and not worry about it - so much. Maybe that will help.
     
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    I have the same problem, but it's because she won't allow me to cum. My last full blown orgasm was on the 6th and my last ruined orgasm was a week ago. I,m allowed to take a Viagra this morning before our tease session, but I will not be allowed to cum. We are in our sixties and have sex multiple times a day. Life is good.
     
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    It's not the same problem. You are able to physically cum. You allow yourself not to. The man that posted this cannot physically cum even when he wants to. What you do is completely different from his issue.
     
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    Thanks. It is very frustrating, but I will talk to my doctor to see if there are any other med's that may not have these side effects.
     
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    Are you on lithium for bipolar disorder?
     
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    Yes, I am.
     
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    You can always suggest depakote unless you have tried that one already. I was on that for 7 years and no sexual side effects.
     
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    There are no scandalous issues surrounding our relationship.
     
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    I am sixty years old. No alcohol involved and no ED. Good News. I finally had an orgasm and was able to cum. I think that perhaps I was overly anxious. Still takes a while -though I do eventually cum.
     
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    Had s friend with this problem no medication involved but I remember his wife complaining he goes for hours.
    He finally figured out from a nurse giving him a blowjob in a parking lot that once she massaged his prostate problem was gone almost immediately.