[Ask a Guy] Un expected pregnancy. What would you think?

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What would you think first?

  1. She had cheated on you and the child wasn't yours.

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  2. Your doctor had messed up the procedure and you were still fertile.

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  1. Barbwire

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    Here's one that popped into my head...

    If you had a vasectomy and some time after that your SO came to you and told you she was pregnant.

    What would your first thought be?
     
  2. igor

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    My thought is that it could be either choice. I am no expert but I know some period of time must pass before a vas is effective. The guy has to be tested to insure he is no longer squirting sperm out with the semen.

    You aren't trying to tell us you are pregnant - are you CL ??????
     
  3. Barbwire

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    I guess I wasn't clear in my question. What I meant to ask was, what would your gut reaction be? I'm talking the very first thing that pops into your head, not something you've had time to mull over.

    I think your first reaction would not be that it could be either choice, Igor. Really.

    This isn't about medical facts, it's about human nature, see?
     
  4. Whiskey

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    You need to go back to your Doctor several times after a vasectomy to make sure that the operation was a success. given that, I think that I would put the brakes on the relationship and have some serious questions.
     
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    My first thought would be statistically it would not be mine due to chance being less than 0.1 of 1%.
     
  6. Northside

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    I would think it was a mistake of some kind. If she was my S.Os. I would have to trust her completely. If I didn't trust her she would not be my "one and only." My only daughter was concieved after a Doctor told us my then wife could never concieve. I trust my lady way more than I trust doctors and lawyers.
     
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    finally!!!!!!
    GET THE HELL OUT OF HERE BITCH!!!!!
     
  8. heelfetish

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    Tough call. One one hand, my ex cheated on me and ended up pregnant. So I've kind of been there before. On the other hand, my wife has never given me even the slightest reason to distrust her.

    Than again, initial reactions are often knee-jerk, so there's no telling what might pop into my head first.

    Did I even answer your question?
     
  9. Barbwire

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    Yes, I mean, no, I mean, maybe. :ugh
     
  10. Barbwire

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    I was just rereading the replies and saw your question, Igor. The answer is, NO WAY, NO HOW, DON'T EVEN THINK IT! :p

    The reason I asked the question is, I'm always interested in studying the male animal and how he thinks. Consider yourself a guinea pig.
     
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  11. igor

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    :rofl oink oink (oops wrong kind of pig) :lol