uh gotta stupid question for the women

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  1. bmxrider4450

    bmxrider4450 New Member

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    alright this is a thread concerning penis size and i would really appreciate it if everyone just beared with me with this question. i know there are soo many penis sized questions on here and i have read them. AAnd i know that my penis isnt everything i have to offer her in sex and i kno wat the average size is for men.

    so when im normal i have a two and a half inch penis, And i am wondering (since im goin off to college this fall) how a girl might react to that if me and that girl is only interested in sex a few times. i kno i dont wanna save myself until im married so im hoping ill occasionally have a few hookups i could be involved in. im 5.5 when im a boner and 4.5 round and pretty self concsious but try not to show it.

    please dont rant, id just liek a few honest answers and this issue will be history for me.

    thank you.
     
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    vampire raver New Member

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    I may be a touch larger, but my SO seems pretty happy
    by the way you are average, mister I have read all the forums
    hope that helps, but seriously don't worry about it
     
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    thanks, that helps
     
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    Two areas where guys can get concerned about otherwise average-sized penises. One is that when looking downwards at ourselves, our penis seems smaller than looking straight-on. The other is that porn movies generally use actors who are larger than average, often quite a bit larger than average.

    The most important technique to learn is oral sex in any case. It doesn't matter how big the penis, most women don't orgasm from intercourse. Read everything you can on oral sex, learn oral sex, master oral sex, and you'll be every girls dream lover.

    There is nothing quite like a girl's dreamy look after you go down on her and she comes. That look of languid satisfaction says a lot, and all the pounding / thrusting in the world never gets the same response.
     
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    I agree completely,
    Thats why I always perform oral on my SO, whenever we make love
    not to mention I love it too
     
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    If I would you, I would get a pump.
    Take your time with it and gradully you would gett a larger size.

    The key is not the women, but your esteem and I think this would help you more.
     
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    I'm not trying to be mean or say how every woman is. But I personally prefer a large penis. Size DOES matter to me. It is actually a requirement that they be somewhat well endowed. Don't need 9 inches (that would be nice) but the larger the better. It's always going to depend on the woman though. Plenty of women couldn't care less what the size is as long as you do it right. But even "doing it right" is going to vary between women. My advice is don't worry about it. You are only looking to "hook up" anyway. When I was with a guy that I thought was small, I didn't obsess about it. I just knew that for a long term committed sexually healthy relationship, I needed them bigger. But it didn't stop me from fooling around with them! And I certainly wasn't thinking negative thoughts about it. Have fun!
     
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    wow, thank you very much anynamewilldo. that was really helpful and no ur not being mean wen u say that.
     
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    My penis is the same size as yours and I have never had a complaint.
    I always perform oral on her and make sure she has an orgasm or two before intercourse.
    By that time she wants me in her so I/it must be alright.
     
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    Hey pal be proud of what uve got so long as you know how to use it i doubt ul have any problems
     
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    I really does just depend on the girl. I'm a bit above average and I've been told I was small, as well as having women tell me it's just too big for them and things ending right there. Stay away from strippers and adult film actresses and you should be just fine.
     
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    cool dude, thanks
     
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    I don't even understand what your concern is. You have your unit down there, so what's the worry? Heh, it is probably a lot of the societal media messing with your head. I doubt every woman cares about the length and girth. If you can satisfy, you are good to go. To hell with all that media hype about pumps and those "Bob" commercials about a guy with his big goofy grin.
     
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    I just looked at a ruler and if you are five and half when you are hard then you are totally normal sized from what I've seen in real life. lol I watch alot of porn sometimes and I know not to count those as normal :)

    I think in normal life anything bigger than 7 is HUGE lol.
     
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    I wouldn't worry about your size. You're normal. Go with short, shallow thrusts and hit her gspot. You don't need deep penetration to satisfy all women. All guys are aware of their size to some extent which seems perfectly normal. You're definitely not too small. Remember, not all girls think bigger is better. I've been turned down before because I was too big. What good does a big dick do if you can't use it? Your size doesn't define your manliness. And if you can use your fingers and tongue the girls will keep coming back for more. Be proud of what you have, and remember sex is suppose to be enjoyable. Go with the flow.