Ugly?

Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by Qwertylicious, Jun 28, 2007.

  1. Qwertylicious

    Qwertylicious New Member

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    There seems to be a bias towards neat, pink, caucasian-looking vaginas that doesn't get talked about enough I think. It makes me, somebody who has a vagina that is the opposite of that description feel a little embarrassed, perhaps even ashamed that I've got the "wrong" sort of equipment. Dumb I know. People here are going to jump in and say "they ALL look beautiful", but it would be a lie to claim there aren't men and women who find the idea of a vagina with (*gasp*) visible inner labia unsightly. :(

    Perhaps this is a generation thing (or just an age thing) because gathering from anecdotal evidence a lot of men seem to think that it looks messy, ugly, or dirty. "beef curtains", which I think is a really ugly term, is what I'm talking about. I guess over-exposure to airbrushed porn has something to do with it.

    What do you guys reckon?
     
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    Hm. I'm bi, and as long as it is clean and healthy, I'm good. :D But some guys do lean towards preferring the labia hidden, or otherwise shaved, or like you say, "neat, pink, [and] caucasian-looking". It really depends on who you talk to. I say, be proud of yours! Just keep it clean and tasty ;)
     
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    Well I have to say that my SO has a neat, pink, caucasian pussy, but I have had the urge to want pull out her lips and suck on them, but since she has a pussy that is tight I can't
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    what I am try to say both of you have something to offer, but if/when you find someone who really loves you and real women(I like real women) then he will love you for you, it doesn't matter when you are in love

    how old are you
     
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    As a man, I like visible labia!
     
  5. Qwertylicious

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    I've actually chosen to be celibate for several reasons (what am I doing in a sexual forum you might think) but I had this niggling thought about it recently and decided to ask this message board what the general attitude was. I mean, I just find our culture disappointing that it can make women feel awkward and unsure of what exactly is normal. Look at the rise of labiaplasty. I just think it's a shame there's women unhappy with their aesthetic appearance down there they feel the need to hack their skin off! And it's not the same as getting a boob job (which I'm also iffy about). Vaginas aren't on display like breasts. Unless you work in the sex industry I can see some reasoning in it. But even then, isn't a little bit of diversity nice?
     
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    One side of my inner labia is longer than the other, and it really only bothers me. My SO could care less. But your right, being a woman and having something like that does make you feel sort of "broken" in a way.

    Although some women do get labiaplasty just to "look" better, I know sometimes it can also be real painful for them.
     
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    no preference whatsoever, as long as it's kept clean it's good in my book and by clean I don't necessarily mean shaved or whatnot I mean it in a strictly sanitary sense.
     
  8. Qwertylicious

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    Yes, if it's for physical comfort I can understand the reasons for surgery.

    I'm out of touch with what people think generally about this sort of thing. But my overall impression is that neat, small = good, anything else = bad. (and purely on an aesthetic basis, when I say small I'm not referring to tightness).

    At least that's how I feel anyway, sad as it is. :(
     
  9. Bluesy

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    Whenever women write into the TalkSex bulletin board asking about their larger labia, it always generates a flurry of responses from guys who say they love larger labia and think they're beautiful, and they always go on about how fun it is to suck on them. It's actually a fetish for some guys :) If you think about it, no two men are exactly alike downstairs, either. There is a LOT of diversity in pussies, dicks, balls, boobs. Some guys have larger balls than others, some hang down lower, sometimes one ball hangs lower than the other...so much variety, and it's all good. The only type of guy who would denigrate the female form is the insecure, immature, misogynistic type. They say cruel things because they feel intimidated by women; they generally have a lot of "women issues", if you know what I mean.

    I love looking at women and I'm very happy that there's so much diversity in shape and size; it would get awfully boring if every woman looked the same :p Maybe you should try perusing some amateur porn...that's where the diversity is. Beauty comes in every shape and size :)

    It's genital mutilation is what it is. Disgusting, despicable practice and doctors who perform it should be ashamed of themselves. Nerve endings are sometimes damaged during the procedure, resulting in loss of sensation. It's something that should only ever be considered if a woman's labia cause her physical discomfort.
     
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    I agree 100% "Why fix it if its not broken?"
    But sex can be quite painful sometimes, I've had a couple of problems with it before. I also hear having children naturally can worsen it too.
     
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    I find people favouring one 'look' over all others a tad bit perverse, especially when that look is small, hairless and "inoffensive" - very similar to a prepubescent girl's. That just doesn't seem right to me. Note that I don't think the look itself is perverse, but the preference for that over anything and hating everything else is. I know the topic of being shaved or not is very popular, and I tend to think hair is good as it's unique to an adult woman, just like fuller-looking labia.

    I mean, how can you call yourself heterosexual if you find that off putting? It's a fad I hope will die out soon.
     
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    It is the medias fault, fucking trends, I have a fetish for shaved bodies me and my SO both shave I feel cleaner that way, she shaves everthing but her head and I shave everything but my arms/pits, head and ass
     
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    actually I have to say i like a hiddin libia but hey I love em all...couldnt live without em...but I think the reason some people like a shaved one with no visible labia is because it is an indication of a tight pussy...but thats not always true...I say it looks like a freakin 13 year old when its bald with nothin and no labia...so I urge my gf not to shave hers completely..it bothers me
     
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    completely shaven both of us
     
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    I love all pussies, but I have to say I have a preference for a neater look. I have no Idea why.... Perhaps I have been brainwashed by the media.
     
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    Need pics to help clarify. I like all kinds really as long as the lips do not sag down to low.
     
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    Umm that's the beauty of people being different you get all sorts of variety...I am a bisexual woman, and as long as it's clean and disease free, it for me!!! :)
     
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    Why dont you post a photo of said pussy and we can all decide,or we could have a poll.....
    (err, pardon the pun):D :brow
     
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    LOL boy do i know how that feels to be all the way shaved haha it does look like you child :ugh
    Do you even shave your legs!?
     
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    Qwert...if I'm not mistaken we've got a thread somewhere around here dedicated to the love of pussys with longer labia. Photos and adoration, maybe it would get your spirits up some?