alrighty.... here goes My girlfriend is absolutely perfect... I wouldn't trade her even for superbowl tickets, but I have some serious problems that I need some advice with. She's a virgin, and we're waiting for the "right time" to do anything, and I want her to be completely sure of what she wants, because I'm afraid of screwing things up for her and ruining everything. Now she's a very sexual person, which I absolutely love, and like any sexual person, she watches porn, has fantasies, etc. She's also liked the idea of being with another girl, but says it would be too much for her to follow through with it. She likes seeing threesomes, but would never do it... it's just a fantasy to her. But isn't a fantasy something that people usually want to do? I'm absolutely petrified that she'll really and truly want to do all these things eventually. The problem is, I can't be a chick, or 2 guys at the same time. It's gotten to the point where I just go into a feeling of angst when there's a girls gone wild or penis enlargement commercial (i'm also a bit uneasy about my size, although it's of average proportions.) She says I'm the only person she wants, but it still bothers me that I can't be everything else at the same time. I want to be perfect, and the fact that I can't is killing me. Any advice?