Hey, my girlfriend and I are both virgins and we have been together for a while. Whenever we are making out or whatever, I can get an erection like a steel pole and hold it for a really long time. Since my girlfriend is a virgin, I know she has to be really stimulated and "hot" because of the pain that may experienced during the breaking of the hymen. I dont know if that is messing with my head or what, but whenever we want to have sex...my penis either gets hard and then loses rigidity when I put on a condom or it fails to get hard enough for penetration all together. Ever happen to anyone else? Anyone know whats going on? And also...Is there any sexual position that makes sex easier for a couple o' virgins? ???