Two of my friends fetish is to use my BF

Discussion in 'Sexual Fetishes and Fantasies' started by cutegirl, Nov 9, 2011.

  1. cutegirl

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    All,

    Need your suggestions /thoughts in the following fetish of two of my friends (girl).

    We are three good friends and we often share our thoughts/likes/dislikes/fetishes within ourselves. Last month or so, my two friends shared their fetish with me (I believe they have discussed this among themselves early), which I found bit uncomfortable. They have the fetish around my Boy friend :eek. As I sometime I shared my experience with my BF with them may be from their this fetish has been created to them...They want me to handcuff my BF in bed and then I will ask them to go one after other (not together) in the room...and then one of them will go in the room and make my BF lick them and she will cum on the face and mouth of my BF when she comes out of the room the other will go and do the same ...Seriously they have asked my thoughts /permission on the same and asked me to convince my BF...At that point of time I have told them that I am not comfortable with this (to share my BF) ...but often they keep me remembering to rethink...I am not sure ...now a days I sometime think that it will be ok if my BF is ok with this...sometime I think what am I thinking???? I am confused...I never told my BF about this...

    I now feel may be I am responsible to create this fetish for them while I told how good my BF is at performing oral sex on me...We are good friends so sometime I think it will be ok if my BF does it once for them also...(if he is ok)...
     
  2. Paula

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    mmm I pitty the boy
     
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    It their fantasy which obviously was built on your glowing reports of his pussy licking talents.
    Keep it a fantasy for everyone or risk friendships and even your BF relationship.
     
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    It all depends on you.

    On the best case everyone will be happy...You BF may enjoy servicing both of your friends as from your other posts I can see that you BF loves to get used while giving oral...Both of your friends will also get happy as they will get a very orgasm from your BF's oral service...You will get happy as you know both your friends and your BF is happy...Story ends there

    On the worst case: If you ask BF to do this he may get offended and he may think you care more for your friends tham him...If he agrees happily then also one problem can happen...If your friends get too much satisfied with his act, they may want to do it again...and all of you four may land in complex situations.....

    If you agree to go ahead with this then hope for the best and prepare for the worst...But don;t ask your BF directly this question that he is ok or not...try to see that how he feels about your friends ...their body etc etc

    BTW: I am pretty sure that you must have shared some of your experience with them where you have mentioned that you have done this kind of act (handcuffing him and getting oral service from him) with your BF and from that they have developed this fetish...

    Suggestion: If you don't mind...You are too vocal to express all the things...may be you can share certain things but not all....Your openness might have given your friends to believe that you are too open to share your BF also...Again if you are ok, your BF is ok then its all up to your decision.
     
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    Thank you all for the replies...

    Paula - my BF really loves to service with tongue and make me cum...But I am not sure that he will love to do it for my friends also or not...May be he will love this idea ...

    lbushwalker - Thanks for the advice ...Yes I have to think a lot before taking this decision...I understand that both my friendship and BF relationship may change somehow if this has been done...

    verygoodguy - very good analysis. Yes I have shared few of my role play details with my friends...like I am a cop and handcuffed him and make him service me orally etc etc. After that they have also told that they masturbated on the thought of making my BF lick their genitals while being handcuffed...Yes...I may have shared more details than I should have...

    But anyway, I am feeling that I should take this up to him...As he loves to service women orally, my friends love to get serviced orally...I love both of my friends and my BF and frankly speaking, I am also feeling kind of Kinky regarding this adventure....One time adventure may be fine. But thanks for remembering me that if it repeats then it may lead to a problem...I will tell it clearly to both my friends and my BF that its for once only...
     
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    Again please be careful what you are going to do...especially if you have any plan for any kind of long term social relationship with your Boy Friend. I hope you are able to understand what I mean to say...
    Anyway, if you still decide to go ahead with the adventure, let us know the the detail...just curious, because this kind of situation I have only heard in porno movies but never seen in life
     
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    I hope you understand that you don't owe your girlfriends anything. If you get off knowing your girlfriends know that you are getting great oral from your boyfriend that's fine. Could you handle knowing that they have experienced what he does for you in your special relationship? That's the big issue. Will it ruin your relationship with him? My guess is, if you ask him to do it and tell him it's okay with you, he'll do it. He wouldn't be with you if he didn't love to eat pussy. It would be a dream come true for me to be in his position (no pun intended). How will it affect you is the question.
     
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    I agree with Northside. If you ask him if he would like to do it, don't be shocked or upset by the speed of the word "Yes!" shooting out of his mouth. Duck and Cover.:p
     
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    Thanks for your advice, but the above statement may not be fully true (As there is a history)...I think at least I owe one of them something...Actually I had done an forbidden act while I was pretty drunk in last year's new year's eve party with my friends and I have done something grossly wrong with one of their ex-BF (he was very drunk & totally passed out then in a separate room, he does not know anything, what I have done)...I felt very guilty about that later, but she noticed my act and had taken it easy...
     
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    Why cant i have these problems. (lol) Good luck... Sounds like fun but I think the after fact, someone will be hurt... What happens if one of your friends falls in love with your boy friend? that would be a bummer.... Also not to put a damper on this but is your boyfriend getting any payback. Poor guy he is satisfying one women, now he has to worry about two more.... Just kidding about the last comment.. Just for fun.
     
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    What's past is past. Two wrongs don't make a right. This will also affect your boyfriend if you can't handle it. That's not fair to him. I still don't think you "owe" anyone anything but an apology.

    On the other hand if it really turns you on and feel it won't screw up your relationship go for it. Just remeber your boyfriend does't owe them anything for your indecretion. He shouldn't have to jeopardize your relationship to ease your concience.
     
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    Cutegirl, if you are going to go ahead (pun) with this then for greater kicks why not be present to observe the outcums.
    That would be totally mind blowing voyeuristic :D
     
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    Thanks...That's the biggest concern to me...The thought has started to turn me on...but I don't know that it will screw up my relationship or not...

    Sometime I think "Screw it, Let's do it" ....Sometime I think no it is just not right and it may bring a lot of unknown complex things in our lives...:ugh

    I do not get much response from any other females...From the majority of the male responses, I am assuming that my BF will accept it gladly (as per majority of male philosophy)...

    I want to know the female feelings also..
    (a) putting yourself in my position
    (b) putting yourself in my 2 friends (girl) position (not the boy friend). More clearly, say one of your friends is offering you to use her boyfriend orally for your pleasure... and both your friend and her BF is ok with it...how will you think about this opportunity ?
     
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    Honestly if I were in your situation I would tell my friends to go fuck themselves. There is no way in hell I would let my husband be with one of my girl friends. Everytime I would hang out with them I would think of them being with him and I would just get really angry. Yes, the thought would turn me on but thinking about it and doing it are two totally different things.
     
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    Just kidding and slightly off topic. Please don't mind...A question

    Is there a prize to guess what mischief you had done in last year's new year eve, with the passed out ex-boy friend of your friend ? :)
     
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    Anyone try to guess, but sorry I cannot give any prize...hmmm let me think . I can only give some title like "Great Guesser" to the poster whose guess will be closest..:p

    Keep guessing...but I also really need more ladies opinion before taking a solid decision on this....I want to verify that if this been done am I the only person on the game be the looser or not...So, I want to get opinion from all the character's perspective...Guys told (keeping them in my BF's position) that my BF will be most probably happy ...

    So, waiting for more decisions from ladies my (a) keeping my friends (girl) shoe on and (b) my shoe on...
     
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    My guess: Had you touched his cock ? :)
     
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    Wrongggggggggggg guess this time ... try again...:D
     
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    Did you make him lick your Pussy? :)
     
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    Hey cutegirl....Guess what? I have found a full visual what your friends are aksing for...

    There is a porno in web from purecfnm.com named "Pussy Worship" which has exactly this scenario for the first part of the movie...May be your friends have watched this and from there they have generated this fantasy :) If you look into it may be you will be able to guess what your friends are going to do with your boy friend when he will be handcuffed in bed...

    BTW: Search in google you will find download links too. More specifically in planetsuzy.org....give a search on "pussy licking machine"
     
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