turn women on?

Discussion in 'Sexual Foreplay and Techniques' started by bigballs69, Aug 21, 2007.

  1. bigballs69

    bigballs69 New Member

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    my girl friend really likes me blowing in her ear and sucking on neck but i don't know what else she might like... any ideas?
     
  2. Dreama

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    Ask her. She's the best one that you could get information from...
     
  3. bigballs69

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    haha i have done that neither of us have had another partner were we wanted to explore more so neither of us know.. buti did ask her
     
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    yeah ask her
     
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    You could give her a massage.....my wife loves when I caress and massage her....try a scalp massage too...my wife gets really relaxed when I massage her scalp and forehead and cheekbones and temples. And from there she is open to an all over massage!
     
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    just ask and maybe she will be open to new things.
     
  7. bighiker2003

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    Just jently rub your hand over Her entire body
    I'm sure you will be able to tell where it feels good to Her.

    But why am I answering this question as you can't be 18 if thats as
    far as you have been.

    Hiker
     
  8. Puss_in_boots

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    Not necessarily, Hiker. He said that she is his first ever partner and he is his partner's first ever partner, so naturally they don't know what they hell they are doing. Age doesn't always dictate experience.
     
  9. bigballs69

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    yea I'm actually 20. haha... i know its kinda bad
     
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    Nothing to be ashamed of at twenty. Women's bodies respond to a light touch, so caress her entire body and feel her melt in your arms.
     
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    Oh, hon, you need to start reading the forums faithfully! You'll learn loads :) I highly recommend Kronnie and Gabriela's responses to the "Ladies, what should come first?" thread in the General Sex forum, for starters.
     
  12. Kronnie

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    Apart from Hiker we all started as beginners :p



    But seriously this forum can teach you loads and loads of new doors to open for sexualy fullfilling your g/f and your own sexual exploration and satisfaction.....
    Finger tips, fingers, hands , lips tip of tongue all of your tongue even your feet can do little and large wonders to a females body, softly gently and sometimes even roughly.. the tops of the feet ( not to everyones liking though ) the calves backs of the knees, inner thighs, hands stroking the back and front of her entire pair of legs, the belly for gently rubbing and kissing, the base of the back sides of her body, her arms , even some times sucking off the fingers and tracing your hands gently over hers, the shoulder muscles nape of neck, her entire neck, ears kissing nibbling and sometimes licking, stroking your hands through her hair .....just for starters :)
     
  13. MikeDog

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    Excite her mind it's the key to everything else ;)
     
  14. Kronnie

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    I think the guy was after some pointers on what to do, i think they seem to already be exciting each others minds, but are unsure where t ogo next.
     
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    I love when my bf does those same things...whispers/blows lightly on my ears...then kisses or sucks on my neck...

    his next choicce is usually to give me a light but firm bite on the shoulder right in the soft spot at the base neck... it just drives me wild...
     
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    She might like you to massage her neck, shoulders, feet, etc. Help her relx and then go into the rest of the actions
     
  17. MikeHardwood

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    While blowing in her ear and sucking on her neck, what are your hands doing? One should be finding its way up her legs, up her thigh and exploring. I don't know of any woman who doesn't enjoy being fingered while making out.
     
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    Apart from Hiker we all started as beginners

    Mabe you started blowing in their ears at 20 kronnie
    but I think the rest of us was much more mature at 20.

    Hiker
     
  19. Kronnie

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    Lol maybe :p...

    Some i guess were mature at 3 as well....i know my dad likes to think so. :)

    But a starting age as far as i know there isnt a age that you must start at ,,,,,your first kiss must be at 7 or less, your first time sexualy with a female must be at aged 9, you must be a sex god by the time your 11....


    everythong has a different time when they start out sexualy, and everyone has a different learning curve as well.....

    some statements you make seem extremly arcaic in notion ...:)
     
  20. Barbwire

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    Listen to Mike, he obviously knows a thing or two about us chicks. :bow