Me and my wife have a great relationship and our sex life isnt too shabby either. We communicate great and always keep an open mind about things. Ive been trying to get her to to explore new things in the bedroom, we talk things trough and she seems interested. But when we get down to it she clams up, gets quiet and just seems as if she is along for the ride. It seems like she isnt interested in anything but the same ol same ol. I on the other hand want things to be more more random and less run of the mill. I enjoy our sex life, I just want some variety. Im very open to trying things, but Im more turned on when she is excited and really gets into it. I feel as if she agrees with things because she knows I want to try it, but at the same time she really doesnt want to do it. So that makes me feel as if Im being pushy by trying to communicate about it. I respect her likes and dislikes, and I wont push the issue on anything she dosent want to do. The topics Ive brought up arent anything crazy, just a little kinkier than our normal routine. Ive tried to add some acting and props, but she just seems like shes not into it. Our relationship isnt broken, Im not trying to fix anything. Ive just had some recent fantasys/fetishes that I have found interesting lateley. In a nutshell I want to explore but I feel like Im alone and communication dosent seem to be working. Any ideas, or constructive criticism?