Few questions - use as a jump off point: How do you build trust? Does sex help build trust? (Please no sex helps everything comments) How has dom/sub relationship helped/hurt? Basically, the new guy and I are playing. I like to be more sub and he has no prob being dom he's just unsure of the limits. I think knowing he will stop is important and is building trust in other areas. We have opened up about other/non-sexual things.