How do you trust a flirty girl? My girlfriend is a very flirty girl. On top of that, virtually all of her guy friends she talks to have liked her at one point or another, or continue to do so. She also finds many men attractive. Sometimes, when she's with one of her girlfriends, she will talk a LOT about how many different people are so attractive to her, even when i'm around. Is that normal? One reason that it makes it difficult for me to trust is because I feel like she doesn't always pay that much attention to me when we're out with a group of friends. Usually I have to do something that will invoke a response from her (make a playful joke aimed at her or something of the like). With the guys involved, she talks to them more than she does to me. Is this normal? I feel like I can be taken for granted some times just because she knows she has me. I generally have to 'start' everything when we're alone as well, from sex to even just cuddling. Maybe I have some jealousy or insecurity issues, what do you think? I'm okay if I'm jealous or insecure, I would very much appreciate some advice on how to get over it though.