Hi, I'm new here and really could use some advice please. Me and my wife are in our early forties. We're a happily married monogamous couple of eleven years. We never had as much sex as I was used to before her, but it's been enough to keep me satisfied, and I've never, ever, felt the urge to stray. Until recently, she was always sexually timid at best, and at worst, frigid to the point of heated arguments. She would never talk during sex, refused to role play (which I love), and blushed at 'dirty' words like cock, pussy, fucking, etc. She won't let me go down on her. She doesn't even think human genitalia is a turn on So here's my dilemma. My wife LOVES double penetration porn and always has. It's the only porn that excites her. But she simply shuts me down, refusing to even 'safely fantasize' with me about two guys 'hypothetically' fucking her, which, interestingly enough, is actually my only fantasy too. I have zero insecurities whatsoever about her straying if she did indeed get into the fantasy full on. When we watch DP porn, she get's extremely horny, yet is still very uncomfortable talking about, or being talked to about the action going on in the porn (and I'm a talker... so kinda sucks). The worst part is my sincere attempts to get her to open up about her baser nature (we're married, not dead). She usually dances around sexual issues altogether. But, over time she's eluded to the fact that yes, indeed, she'd enjoy being fucked by two guys at once. She even came harder than she ever had in her whole life (she told me afterward), during a sex story I told her while we had buzzed sex. I had her completely convinced that I was a new cock pounding her pussy, and right away her body warmed up and she relaxed her legs into a fully wide opened position for me to go deeper, faster, harder. Her rhythm even changed to something I didn't recognize. I'm no genius, but when I witness her climax harder while watching DP porn over just regular sex between us, it makes me think only one thing: she is secretly hiding her DP fantasies as best she can, but is simply afraid of hurting me somehow. The stupid thing is she knows it's my fantasy too. I just don't know... I'm pretty sure porn is designed to do draw your imagination in, but not everyone is the same, so, I have to give her the benefit of the doubt until she shows me different. So... to sum things up. I feel she's not being 100% honest with me. She's a good girl and I would never force her to do anything she wasn't comfortable with, but I never feel like we will ever be complete until she lets go of her fear. Any advice is appreciated, thanks.