Trouble having orgasm with boyfriend...

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  1. jennd714

    jennd714 New Member

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    I have not been able to have an orgasm with my boyfriend recently. I've come really close (at times i'm so close to orgasming that it hurts but in a good way) but for some reason I just cant get to that point. I have had orgasms with him so I know it's not that he cant get me to that point.... I have masterbated and I can bring myself to orgasm but it does take longer than usual......

    As far as the medical history, I have had a partial hysterectomy (only uterus removed) 3 years ago and do not take any medications. I've never had a problem like this before or after that until now.

    Can anyone suggest anything????
     
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    Dear JennD714

    Medical term is Frigid

    Her is a thread form a search on coming.
    http://sexualforums.com/talk/showthread.php?t=795&highlight=coming

    One suggestion you are apparently aware of is estrogen therapy. If your uterous was removed, then you may be producing less estorgen. Were your ovaries removed? Is estrogen produced by the ovaries? I know a lady who had a hystorectomy, and she says she is very upleasant if she fails to take her estrogen daily.

    You might look at the Foreplay section and look for some ideas to get you hotter before starting with BF. Firestarter has a frigidity problem with his GF, and he recently posted his problem. Synergy, is the comfort level between both of you. Are you feeling relaxed and loved togethr? My partner permits many foreplay activities, but she often fails to make me feel loved. How is your self confidence and self-image?

    yahoo. com search for Frigidity

    Index to resources:

    http://www.looksmart.com/eus712191/eus136007/eus219989/eus273388/r



    Over the Counter :

    http://www.female-libido.org/libido-sexuality/female-frigidity.html


    There is a sexual forum on curezon. com Here is a breathing thread. Try brreathing more deeply, and envisioning a favorite place of relaxation and pleasure during sex.

    http://curezone.com/forums/m.asp?f=318&i=3936




    Blessings
     
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    Thanks a bunch!
     
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    Dear Jennd714,

    Your Thank You makes me feel good, because I did take some time/effort in getting thepost together for you.

    There is another resource, that has recently upgraded their website. marriagebuilders. com. I had to get a new Log-in name and password. I downloaded the free version of Mozilla firefox, from mozilla. com.

    But I searched firgid frigidity, and this was a recent thread. There are probably more, but I just did Emotional Needs, 30 days.

    http://www.marriagebuilders.com/ubb...igid++frigidity&topic=&Search=true#Post325232

    Blessings
     
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    Dear JennD714,

    Here is a copy of another post on this subject:

    You might try lightworksAV. com. I have the Tanritc Massage DVD. I enjoy it. I just ordered the two other errotic massage DVD's. ON the left selection options, click Sexuality and Tantra. On P. 4: Art of Orgasm for Women, and P. 7, Erotic Guide to Better Orgasms, might be helpful to your Fiancee. All the Lightworks videos seem to take an educational perspective, rather than raunch.

    I have ordered twice from them, and they came through.

    The Link: www.lightworksAV.com

    Blessings
     
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    Your welcome and Thanks again for the info. I've looked at the sites you told me to and they were very helpful. Thanks again...
     
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