I am having a dillema that is kind of scaring me. Prior to the past two weeks it has been 4 months or so since I fooled around with a chick so in the meantime there has been some serious masturbation. Last week I picked up a chick in mexico while on spring break and after making out with her for an hour or so, it came time for me to take care of business and I wasn't hard anymore. At first I was raging hard and typically I start getting erosed just from a kiss more than 5 seconds. There also was massive amounts of whiskey/tequilla involved so I convinced myself that was the problem. Two nights ago (back at school) I was making out with a girl in my dorm and was raging again but after 20 minutes or so of making out, I started to lose my erection. This time there was minimal amounts of alcohol present. This past morning the girl that I was with in my dorm (after staying the night) wanted to fuck in the morning and again I was raging hard (even before making out) but couldn't close the deal in 30 minutes. The entire time I was thinking about how I have to stay hard and I just couldn't do it. I'm afraid that I am pressuing myself too much and psyching myself out. :mad I've never had this problem and it really is scaring the shit out of me. I am 21 years old and think about sex every 10 seconds. Has anyone else had similar experiences??? I read one time that if you masturbate too frequently, that it can be the only way that you can get off/stay hard because you get used to it. Any truth to this? Has anyone had any similar experiences that they could help me out? The girl that I have been with in my dorm, I would like as my girlfriend and I am afraid that i am not making a very good first sexual impression. Each time I made sure she came but both times she wanted sex afterwards and I feel bad that I can't perform even though I really want to. I want to talk to her about this but I am really embarassed. :nerv Any info is appreciated and this is my first post!