Ok some of you may recognize me from a few days ago, but I'm back. I just recently lost my virginity, and that first time I couldn't come. I blamed it on the beer and nerves, which probably had a lot to do with it, but the problem still persists... The second time was pretty similar to the first, without the alcohol. I hadn't had an orgasm for a couple days either, so I was pretty damn horny. But even though we did it in several positions (vaginal, oral, handjob, etc) for a couple hours I still couldn't come. After she came 4 times she was too exhausted to continue, so she helped me masturbate to orgasm (which was actually a pretty sensual experience, but I had to do most of the work). There's a few things it could be from what I can tell. First, she gets extremely wet. There's not as much friction as there could be I suppose, although it does feel bloody amazing anyway. I'm not exactly small, having average length and above-average girth so I don't think that would be it. I've never really had problems masturbating either. The main thing I think it could be is psychological. I was actually raised to believe that sex is evil unless in wedlock, and while I've completely discounted those beliefs I imagine there could be some lingering effects from that upbringing (more like brain-washing in my opinion, but that's another story). I suppose it hasn't been that long since I thought that way either, I just thought that I was over that part of my life (Yeah... I'm pretty bitter about it). I wouldn't worry so much but I feel kind of bad. The sex appears great for her, and I'm apparently exhausting her (there's an ego boost for ya), but I think she feels bad that I can't enjoy it as much. I'm sure to reassure her and everything as often as possible, and we've talked about how it could be me getting over the way I was raised, but I'm afraid she'll think she just doesn't turn me on or something. Any ideas?