"tribute pic" articles

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  1. HazHardHat

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    I just thought I'd provide links to some articles that are exploring all the different sides of this act, that often times doesn't get talked about too much in the open.

    One from a woman who wrote about her personal experience and first impressions discovering what they were:
    https://human.parts/i-want-to-be-a-tribute-star-934b954f918e#.q4qjsaszh

    One exploring how "tribute pics" are used sometimes to troll/degrade women:
    http://mic.com/articles/126575/there-s-a-disturbing-new-way-men-are-trolling-women-online#.nyAwc8310
     
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    Interesting read...makes one think
     
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    what thoughts did they bring to mind PP?
     
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    I found the articles interesting too.
    I had no clue that people were using tribute pics to degrade women. That's disgusting.
    As for the people who agree to it, if it rocks your boat, I see no harm. The idea of someone doing one for me doesn't particularly excite me, but I do feel curious about how I'd react if I saw one....as long as I had agreed to it, of course.
     
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    Yeah Maria I really hadn't been clued into the degrading side of them either, although I had seen posts and vids that kinda fit that bill before. Its a shame people always have to take it to those kind of places. I appreciate the article for bringing it to people's attention a bit more and hopefully it will help to stop some of that destructive behavior.

    I am with you in relation to two consenting people, if it is a turn on for both and both people want it, go for it ;-)
     
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    I know it's been done & permission has been asked.
    But for the person that uses for the intent to degrade they have other issues & it's disturbing. I watch to much Criminal Minds.
    This is a sex site. .so you know the cum is flying everywhere. ..you'd be nieve to think otherwise.
    I admit it's flattering knowing guys get off to my pics...& here they'll tell you that straight up or in a round about way.
    I'm visual as most people are...and there are many pics of different things. ..men, women, erotica, vids etc. That stir the sexual being in all of us.
    And if "tribute " is what your into...men or women. ..great
     
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    I'm so out of touch with the Social media thing. I had no idea this tribute stuff was happening.
     
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    I love sharing my photos here, but getting tribute from a stranger wouldn't make me feel comfortable. I would love if someone i know very well do it. I found it disgusting who does this to degrade woman
     
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    lol well sometimes ignorance is bliss @DayPlay3 :)

    I am sure everyone is different but the comments/reactions i've read from women online about this topic I think the majority have echoed what you are saying above @Sara92 Not into it if a random person would send it to them, more interested and open to it if its someone they know/like sends it to them. Again that is generalizing but I don't think you are alone in that take on it :)
     
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    I think I need to say that if I've been chatting with the person for a while & comfortable & they asked then yes. Getting a msg from someone you don't know asking for that off the bat...no.
    Go with your instincts.
     
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    :) good call PP
     
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    In relation to the second article above which takes a look at the twisted, degrading side of unwanted and unsolicited "tribute pics", I thought it was needed to reiterate some points that were in that article and also brought to my attention. Just as sex can be a fun, incredible, enjoyable thing between two consenting adults, it can also be a horrible/fucked up thing when forced upon someone who doesn't want it. Unwanted and unsolicited tribute pics can act in much of the same way, just the online version of it.

    Tributes and rape both involve having a guy cum on (or in) someone without their permission, simply because the person declined someone's advances. Unwanted/unsolicited "tribute pics" have been compared to being digitally raped, and it's there far all to see.

    Its been reported that many times the guy does it for some sort of revenge, or simply because he wants to feel like he has some form or power/control over someone he fancies but can't have. In the case of these "tributes" they are doing it anonymously from behind a computer screen and then sending the photo to show her what he did to her, without her permission. Sexually "leaving their mark" on her. Even worse, they will then post the photos online.

    Scroll through any porn site and you'll find videos and pics of guys cumming all over celebrities faces and bodies and often times degrading and violent language is included in the titles or descriptions.

    I think there is absolutely nothing wrong with tribute pics if two people consent and are interested/excited about the idea but it's important to keep in mind all sides of this.
     
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    I recently received a private message on here with a tribute pic. I had not previously had a conversation with the person. I am cool with the looking and all or I wouldn't have posted. However having that sent made me extreamly uncomfortable. Cool show me a video of you cumming fine and dandy but don't cum on a pic without discussing it with me.
     
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    That was quite an article. First time I had heard about tributing. I think if a guy asked me if he could do a video showing him jerking off to my pic and cumming on it i would be ok with it, even flattered; maybe somewhat excited. I would not look on it as being degrading. But then again i do enjoy watching a guy masturbate and cum in general.
     
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    First time I had heard about tributing too. I think if a guy asked me if he could do a video showing him jerking off to my pic and cumming on it i would be ok with it, even flattered; maybe somewhat excited. I would not look on it as being degrading. I feel that if i can inspire a man to do this it is a compliment of sorts.
     
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    HAZ I think you had to explain what tributes even was to me. My go to guy. Haz has the answers.
     
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    Yeah, that's kind'a weird.

    I've only done maybe three or four "tributes" — whether in pics or video form. But they've always been for friends who I had talked to about it, and who requested them from me.
     
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    Yes he does :D
     
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    While I appreciate the kind words, sometimes I don't even know what day it is so don't put too much weight on my "answers" :p nothing but love to ya both @Gingerbear @PerfectPussy
     
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    I have had tributes, although each has had my permission. I don't really know how I would feel about ones done to me without it but I would probably not be amused.

    As for the whole social media thing, I keep all of my networks private, unless you are a long term friend or family on those you are not going to get access to my stuff. I think most people understand there are a lot of people on the internet that are just plain bonkers. And if you put yourself out there you are going to get and see strange perverted behavior like random "tributes". Even in my news feeds I see a lot of bickering from people that must go through life permanently grouchy all the time.

    Even on here we had a "member" that was recently closed his account just last night. Who had something negative to say about everybody on here and seemed to be on some sort of war path. And the pics he kept cheerleading about probably was not even his, he was psycho and full of energy, that is for sure.

    If you come on the internet and expect all the randoms you meet to be normal, you are going to be disappointed. And the men degrading women that way have serious personal issues that probably need to be addressed by professionals.
     
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