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  1. Recooter

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    How do I get my wife excited about letting me use toys on her? I just want to try different and exciting new things.....all the time. How do I get her to break out of her shell? Maybe I'm just to horny! Help me!!!
     
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    For buying... just send her a message with the link and ask her "what do you think about this?" Or while shopping online, just show her and get her thoughts.

    Putting them to use... just tell her you are really turned on and have been thinking about .... and would like to go to the bedroom and play. Or, you could just stage the toy out of view and then incorporate while you are going down on her or some other activity which would allow for the choice toy.

    Works for us, but all couples, people are different?
     
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    Not a bad idea to shop for some toys together a sex shop
     
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    That's always an exciting experience. :)
     
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    My wife wouldn't go so I went and a hot blonde helped me out. That was hot too. She helps me with my butt toys too
     
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    My wife and I love to do sexy things like that.
     
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    I remember when I was much younger being embarrassed to go in a store and buy a Hustler magazine ( pre-internet). Now it would not bother me at all :)
     
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    Toys are Great and realistic dildo's are our fav! 20161028_213220.jpg
     
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    Me too!!! Gets me so hard
     
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    The Rabbit is the weapon of choice for my wife.
     
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    If she's too conservative it'll freak her out. I went through that for a few years after we were married. I finally got over it, but initially my wife would drag me to shops and I'd just kind of stare at the floor and feel like a 13 year old at his first middle school dance.

    Amazon is a much better way to break the ice, but as you'll find when doing research, stay clear of the "jelly" looking vibes and dildos if at all possible, a lot of people have reactions to them.

    You might start with a vibrating cock ring... that way she doesn't feel its a toy "for her" and she can find she enjoys the vibration on her clit. Then move up from there.

    I went to find the one I just ordered, and of course now it's on sale. EVERY COUPLE NEEDS ONE AT THIS PRICE ($17):

    https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B06XSW6H2D/

    This thing is powerful and has several modes. We love it. I just have to put it on after I'm already hard because it's not small then super stretchy like others I've used, it's more medium sized and somewhat stretchy.
     
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    Very true. First time my wife & I went into a shop, she didn't look at much of anything but the floor either!

    At home, on line, much easier. You can do it together, and it's more fun if you both are naked! :)
    I started that for us. We were looking on line, and she was trying to visualize the actual size of one, so I undressed, and handed her a tape measure! By the time we did an order, we were both undressed, and both dripping, and when the order was in, all over each other!

    A different kind of foreplay!

    :D
     
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    My wife and I shop online while in bed, naked.
     
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    There's the way to do it!
    Also what to do when you get 'em!

    ;)
     
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    Set up a sexy evening together...candles, the whole nine yards...and surprise her with a simple vibrator to start. Maybe introduce the idea of looking together at more toys if she enjoys it. :)
     
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    Or surprise her with it and don't push it unless she seems interested. If she doesn't just leave it...her curiosity will get the best of her when you aren't around. Lots of ladies like to experiment on their own the first time...I mean if it is the first time :rolleyes:
     
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    Very true
     
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    Wait until she's asleep. Then use a really gentle bullet vibrator to start playing with her. Do your best not to wake her up with it. Then after a bit slip a dildo inside her.

    Don't worry - women love surprises and she will in no way be incredibly pissed off at you for violating her in her sleep.
     
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    A in bed naked online shopping spree could also bring up some interesting conversation. May result in other fun as well. :cool:
     
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