I was just looking at an older, long ago locked, thread about how guys feel about women touching themselves during sex and it brought to mind a question. For me, working my clit with my fingers during intercourse doesn't do anything for me. I can get off just fine if I'm playing solo by using my fingers whilst fucking myself with a dildo but when I'm being pumped by my man, I can't get that same effect. I've tried using my Eroscillator while my husband's been inside of me with varying degrees of success. One problem is, he always comes before I can get off and I wonder if me pressuring myself to come before or during his orgasm is what is making is so darned difficult. So ladies, do any of you have experience with this sort of thing?