I usually don't post much about my current situations but I'm hoping that maybe you guys & gals could give me a little advice. I've never been much for dating & since I'm fairly new on the dating scene again, I'm a little rusty. I started seeing a guy back in October...we've went out a few times but we talk quite a bit. Everything was great between us, but our schedules were quite different from each other so it was hard to get together. We both agreed that we could date other people since it wasn't an exclusive thing. Well last weekend, I went on a date with a new guy. Everything between us was really great & happened to go out again last night. He wants a serious relationship where I really don't know what I want right now. I'm right in the middle of a big career move, so it really isn't fair to that other person but yet if it happens, I'm not against it completely. Well the first guy "B" asked what I did last weekend & I told him I went out on a date. He seemed a little jealous about it, but seemed ok for the most part. The other guy "J" doesn't know about "B" & I'm not sure how to tell him about him since just after 2 dates he seems rather attached. Both guys have great qualities & there is great potential for both...so I'm totally torn between the two. The only thing that I don't like about "J" is that he HATES my company that I work for & is quite vocal about it. I don't think I can deal with that on a long term basis, but everything else is wonderful. On the other hand, "B" is not necessarily looking to settle down or even want to be in a relationship right now but I'm not completely sure about that since he seemed jealous. I think that by choosing one or the other will end up hurting one of them & I just hate that....it hurts me to hurt others. I should have known better than to date more than one person at a time...it just makes everything so damn complicated. It would be different if I was just looking for a FWB or FB, but I'm not...even though I slept with both of them. And that of course just makes things even more complicated! Any suggestions or advice? Thanks!