[Ask a Guy] Too much stimulation while using lube during masturbation

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  1. Frank_Joseph

    Frank_Joseph New Member

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    hi everyone. I'm Frank and I'm new to these forums.

    I have an important question:

    Growing up I've always masturbated with no lube (just my hand) and recently I've tried experimenting with different lubes from around the house, such as hand lotion and/or Vaseline. However my problem is when I use lube, my penis head gets too much stimulation.

    I can still orgasm from it, put it's almost painful. Like too much stimulation.

    Usually I just my whole hand around my penis shaft.

    Any help/ suggestions?

    Thanks
     
  2. boobjob

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    The simple answer is that you should do whatever feels best. There are no rules that you have to use lube. Personnally I have always enjoyed a soapy handjob in the shower whether its my wife or me doing the stroking.
     
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    Hi FJ, welcome to SF.
    From experience could I suggest you be a bit careful about what you use for lube.
    Like you I tried all kinds of smooth, slippery things including shampoo and conditioner but eventually became chemical sensitive to some component.
    These days even perfumed soaps gets my glans in a red itchy rash.
    I suggest stick to proper designed lubes, water or silicone based.
    My preference of Pjur Original silicone; smooth, gliding & silky.
     
  4. Dragon_Fire

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    My first partner used to be content with just his own spit as lube. My current one uses nothing. No idea what the others did.:shrug
     
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    Hi,
    I've almost always used soap on my cock to j/o. I usually use Palmolive bar(green) It's pretty mild and it feels great!
     
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    odd threads are appearing lately...lol...waterbased lube is best...easy clean up...
     
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    OLD Engine oil , or the grease from a ships anchor :naughtydance

    :shrug

    if thats not your thing try some nice aromatherpy oils.
     
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    wrong thread damn
    I hate when that happens
     
  9. thunderseed

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    Maybe it's painful because hand lotion and "house hold lubes" have chemicals and are not meant to be used on genitals.
    Or perhaps your dick is not used to the sensations, it should get better in time. Do you get the same pain during sex with naturally lubricated vaginas?
     
  10. 12barblues

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    should have pointed this out earlier but the op has been gone since he made this thread last oct.
     
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    Yes, but my suggestions still should be pinned :p
     
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    i use lube some days which is nice, depends how messy i want to get